Who's had 'em?

2/9/2009 7:03:44 PM

i haven't had a lot of serious relationships but i'm friendly with most of the people i've dated. or at the very least i don't hate them.

[Edited on February 9, 2009 at 7:05 PM. Reason : ]

2/9/2009 7:04:45 PM

sure

2/9/2009 7:08:35 PM

I'd say me and tartsquid broke up on good terms

she gave me her cat

2/9/2009 7:10:23 PM

I still think one of my exs will always be an asshole till the day he dies. he's too self centered.

2/9/2009 7:11:51 PM

1 truly amicable one, with the guy I dated my freshman year of college - we just weren't right for each other. but we've been friends since

2/9/2009 7:13:40 PM

2/9/2009 7:14:19 PM

never

and i dont think that i want to have a relationship with someone after it is over

just too awkward

2/9/2009 7:14:26 PM

i've never had an amicable breakup


but i've managed to remain friends with most of them after the fact

2/9/2009 7:15:05 PM

I try to be. Some people can't handle it though

2/9/2009 7:15:25 PM

The only person that I have amicably broken up with is now my husband.
Now that's one amicable break up.


[Edited on February 9, 2009 at 7:24 PM. Reason : lkklj]

2/9/2009 7:23:54 PM

the last two

they were the sad kind of "i'm moving away for a long time and we have to do this" breakups

but no ill will involved

2/9/2009 7:25:17 PM

nope

dont give a shit either

billions of people it the world

NEXT

2/9/2009 7:25:41 PM

I know one that isn't.

2/9/2009 7:43:45 PM

most of mine have been.

2/9/2009 7:45:19 PM

Became really good friends after my last breakup. We hang out every week.

2/9/2009 7:46:06 PM

i don't think i've ever had ill will involved

but i'm not bff with them either. i don't even really talk to anyone i've dated anymore. not because of ill will. we don't live in the same cities, etc, just moved on.

2/9/2009 8:12:09 PM

they come back...that ALWAYS come back

2/9/2009 8:13:25 PM

been there done that got the t-shirt

2/9/2009 8:13:56 PM

not I

2/9/2009 8:14:17 PM

Quote :

"The only person that I have amicably broken up with is now my husband. fiance Now that's one amicable break up."

2/9/2009 9:07:55 PM

I'm friendly with everyone except my ex girlfriends. One of my more serious relationships ended with her wanting to still be best friends and me saying you can't be serious... FREEDOOMM! I wouldn't avoid my exs if I ran into them, I'd definitely ask them how they are doing and be cordial. That would probably just piss them off, but I'd rather be civil than ignore someone like that.

2/9/2009 9:13:07 PM

all mine have ended in... fuck you.. no FUCK YOU!


ahaha

2/9/2009 9:13:46 PM

I did. But we'd both come to the conclusion to break up around the same time
. . . she just beat me to the punch by 24 hours

2/9/2009 9:19:02 PM

and then you had sex for the first time afterwards

2/9/2009 9:20:54 PM

my breakup with Joie was fairly amicable

we're still pretty good friends to this day

2/9/2009 9:20:59 PM

I haven't had too many breakups, but the rule seems to be...

when they break up with me, I'm amicable until I get away, at least

when I break up with them, I manage to do it in some tactless, brutal way, and they try to slap me

2/9/2009 9:24:43 PM

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2/9/2009 9:42:12 PM

I guess I was trying to get more at a mutual breakup where there were no feelings what so ever afterwards. The only ones I can think of are Seinfeld/Jeannene Garafolo in that Seinfeld episode and also Meg Ryan/Greg Kinnear in You've Got Mail. And yes, I am aware those are fake relationships.

2/9/2009 10:08:43 PM

i dont think that happens in real life

2/9/2009 10:09:23 PM

mutual breakups are nice in theory, but don't exist in practice. Someone is always on the butt end.

2/9/2009 10:10:13 PM

well how long after? like a day? a week? 3 weeks?

2/9/2009 10:10:15 PM

i'm really, really good friends with 2 exs

one took a few years though

2/9/2009 10:10:16 PM

**Raises Hand**

Can't say I've really ever had a bad break up.... it is what it is.
Actually, I'm still in touch with most of them, and friends with many of my ex's wives.

2/9/2009 10:10:24 PM

it took awhile (years) to be on good terms with some of my exes... the ones that were easy to stay friends with took a shorter amount of time but we weren't really that into each other to begin with... mostly high school stuff

2/9/2009 10:11:38 PM

50% of my breakups are amicable.

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2/9/2009 10:12:53 PM

i think it's weird though

sometimes the worse the breakup is, the better the relationship is afterward, and to me it kinda shows that there was some substance there to begin with if there were that many feelings to be hurt.

of course that's kinda bullshit b/c i've had some really meaningful relationships with awful breakups and still have never spoken to them

not like, really dramatic events, just long, drawn out periods of mutual bummedness, never any hatred.

2/9/2009 10:13:38 PM

now that i think about it....


a couple of them were my best friends before we dated...we dated...had nasty breakups...then after a few years we were able to be friends again...

the ones i didn't know before we got together are the ones i'm not friends with anymore...

[Edited on February 9, 2009 at 10:15 PM. Reason : ^sorta what he said]

2/9/2009 10:15:02 PM

most weren't at the time

i'm friendly today with all of my exes except for an especially resentful bitch with a fragile ego

2/9/2009 10:17:04 PM

ahahahahahah

2/9/2009 10:18:05 PM

hey...fuck you buddy


my ego is just fine

2/9/2009 10:18:31 PM

there are some things you can never come back from... after certain things are said and done there's never going to be a friendship

2/9/2009 10:19:42 PM

you would be surprised at what you can get over once you've distanced yourself from the emotion of the situation...


maturity and time can heal a lot of wounds

[Edited on February 9, 2009 at 10:21 PM. Reason : not saying you are immature, fyi]

2/9/2009 10:20:42 PM

Quote :

"hey...fuck you buddy my ego is just fine "

2/9/2009 10:21:17 PM

2/9/2009 10:21:58 PM

Quote :

"there are some things you can never come back from... after certain things are said and done there's never going to be a friendship"

not as long as you're such a self-absorbed, self-important bitch i guess

looks like he lucked out

2/9/2009 10:22:33 PM

WOW

2/9/2009 10:23:39 PM

i just don't care about being friends with the people i've broken up with (for the most part). i mean its not like anything bad happened, its just like...over?? i guess that pretty much explains WHY we didn't last in the first place. apparently, we were not going on much if i do not even care about having conversations and seeing them now. its not like i don't care because i'm mad or something, i'm just totally neutral. i'd talk if i saw them, but if i don't, whatevs.

2/9/2009 10:23:40 PM

Quote :

"WOW"

z-z-z-zomg i can't believe he said that to ****ME****!!

*has no idea what the fuck a real tragedy is*

2/9/2009 10:24:36 PM

oh well
i don't know your situation so i can't comment on where these feelings are coming from

2/9/2009 10:29:48 PM