...too drunk to please her, or busy, or asleep AND she's in your bed, how does that make you feel?

Are you mad if she gets off at your place while you're busy? Are you turned on? Do you just not care?

Inquiring minds want to know.

2/21/2009 1:41:24 PM

obviously you're not hot enough

or he just doesn't like you

2/21/2009 1:42:22 PM

mad, why would you be mad

turned on, meh

care, not really

2/21/2009 1:42:25 PM

High five?

2/21/2009 1:43:57 PM

I've never done this. I just wonder what the average guy would think if a girl did.

2/21/2009 1:44:14 PM

really depends.
If she is getting off right after we had sex and i couldn't do the deed, then i'm ok (but that never happens.)
if she's getting off and she hasn't even TRIED to have sex with me, then i'm pissed off.

2/21/2009 1:44:47 PM

Yeah, if that chick doesn't at least try to ride my drunk/tired/busy ass first, I would be slightly perturbed.

[Edited on February 21, 2009 at 1:50 PM. Reason : That tells me that she would rather get off herself than with me and that's no bueno.]

2/21/2009 1:49:31 PM

if i'm too drunk, busy, or asleep, i guess i wouldn't really know? but that'd be cool, i mean, when i'm not busy she should be warmed up.

2/21/2009 2:11:24 PM

SHUT THE FUCK UP, DOUCHEBAG

2/21/2009 2:12:38 PM

you wait till she gets close, run in, stick your dick in, and claim credit for it, cmon man, it so easy

2/21/2009 2:13:26 PM

If a girl is trying to get off in my bed without me, something is wrong with that picture.

2/21/2009 2:18:23 PM

Never been in a situation where a chick got off by herself when she was in my bed with me. I get off on watching a girl please herself, but I am always involved. In other words, I have had girls masturbate in front of me (which is a HUGE turn on), but never when I wasn't paying attention. At least not that I know of.

2/21/2009 2:18:46 PM

i've never had a girlfriend cos' i just like to post on msg boards and internets thingz

2/21/2009 2:23:06 PM

I wish I'd ever had a girlfriend that was horny enough to do something like this

2/21/2009 2:33:06 PM

High five.

2/21/2009 2:34:37 PM

^^You should ask her to.

2/21/2009 2:45:15 PM

I do, when I can...but my rare girlfriends have mostly been either highly religious Catholics who won't fuck before marriage anyway, or touchy-feely emotional girls who don't like to think that I'm just in it for the sex. With this latter sort, we fuck when she feels horny, but if I suggest it or try to make it happen, she generally puts me off with some slight answer, or even acts wounded.

How I would love to date a nympho

2/21/2009 2:58:41 PM

Dude that sucks.

Your feelings should be treated with the same respect that your SOs feelings are.

If she's horny, you fuck, but if you're horny, you get dissed? That's fucking terrible.

2/21/2009 3:01:50 PM

I always figured this was the rule in relationships. If he wants to fuck, he has to convince her...if she wants to fuck, he needs no convincing

2/21/2009 3:03:35 PM

That is not the damn rule.

Shouldn't she feel wanted and desired if you want to fuck her? What's wrong with that? Why should you have to convince her when you need no convincing?

2/21/2009 3:06:59 PM

I know how you feel man, my ex turned into that at the end. No worries though there are plenty of girls who are not like that.

2/21/2009 3:07:49 PM

this happened once, he got off i didn't i wanted to so i asked him to leave while i did. ya i didn't feel right if he was in the bed at the same time. dunno if i pissed him off and don't care now b/c he's a jerk so i'd be happy if i did.

2/21/2009 3:12:02 PM

You asked him to leave??

AHAHA, that is awesome.

2/21/2009 3:12:37 PM

^^^^ Well, I'm drawing from a rather small sample...but it's usually been the case with me. Also, my charm is much more intellectual and unique than downright sexy. And yes, she certainly should, it's undoubtedly a double standard, but that doesn't stop it from happening. Oh well

^^^ Thanks...maybe I will find one sometime soon

V not in my experience


[Edited on February 21, 2009 at 3:19 PM. Reason : V]

2/21/2009 3:14:19 PM

Quote :

"highly religious Catholics who won't fuck before marriage anyway"

Highly religious Catholics are nymphos, so does not compute.

2/21/2009 3:16:07 PM

Quote :

"If he wants to fuck, he has to convince her...if she wants to fuck, he needs no convincing"

Quote :

"there are plenty of girls who are not like that."

Plenty? I don't know. That kind of girl seems fairly common. It's a total double standard -- they'll bitch about the glass ceiling, but never about the ass ceiling.

Quote :

"don't like to think that I'm just in it for the sex"

lol... Her parents or church leaders really fucked her head up. OMG WE CAN'T HAVE REALLY ENJOYABLE SEX, BECAUSE THAT MEANS YOU LIKE THE SEX MORE THAN YOU LIKE ME

Quote :

"If a girl is trying to get off in my bed without me, something is wrong with that picture"

...like you've never snuck into a girls empty bed and jerked off

2/21/2009 3:16:53 PM

Quote :

"OMG WE CAN'T HAVE REALLY ENJOYABLE SEX, BECAUSE THAT MEANS YOU LIKE THE SEX MORE THAN YOU LIKE ME"

Do you think a lot of religious individuals have this attitude?

2/21/2009 3:19:57 PM

Get 'em, Vix.

2/21/2009 3:21:42 PM

Quote :

"I always figured this was the rule in relationships. If he wants to fuck, he has to convince her...if she wants to fuck, he needs no convincing"

Gotta set the tone early in the relationship. Tell her what you want and what you wanna do to her. A lot of girls like being told what to do, no matter what they actually say.

Nymphos don't fall in your lap. They turn into nymphos.

2/21/2009 3:26:50 PM

as long as she's getting herself off I don't see why it would be a problem

2/21/2009 3:30:23 PM

Quote :

"Do you think a lot of religious individuals have this attitude?"

Why?... because I said it about the "latter sort" of JeffreyBSG's "rare girlfriends"?
Who's generalizing?... you or I?
(hint: wait until actual prejudice is expressed before taking aim)

Quote :

"Get 'em, Vix."

Excuse me. I'll thank you to not encourage false allegations of prejudice.

2/21/2009 3:30:57 PM

Oh, shut up and chill out.

2/21/2009 3:32:50 PM

Whoa, guys, we kinda had a sexy thread going here.

Let's keep it horny, folks.

2/21/2009 3:40:50 PM

why would i get mad? i expect her not to give a shit when i beat off. i'd probably be turned on if anything..

2/21/2009 3:41:02 PM

Hahah, that's called "being open-minded."

2/21/2009 3:42:50 PM

also














PICS OR IT DIDN"T HAPPEN

2/21/2009 3:44:52 PM

Quote :

"they'll bitch about the glass ceiling, but never about the ass ceiling. "

lol

2/21/2009 3:46:26 PM

i've never even thought of this question before. but if i'm tired and he wants to do something a) we do something less rigorous or he does his thing and i'm like whatev, i was tired anyway.

i don't see the dilemma (if there is one)

2/21/2009 3:48:35 PM

I don't know bout you guys, but I preheat the over before i stick the meat in

figure her gettin herself off is the same as that

unless you're datin a one hitter quitter

2/21/2009 4:48:24 PM

if she has to do it herself then you should be ashamed

2/21/2009 5:20:56 PM

2/21/2009 5:24:05 PM

didn't read the whole thread, but if you're too busy while she's getting off.....you're doing it wrong

2/21/2009 5:27:02 PM

I had a gf that would do this when I was busy or asleep. At first it was cool, I either didn't care or was glad she was entertaining herself and not bitching. Sometimes I'd come back and be like oh sweet you're already warmed. Eventually the frequency got ridiculous. It'd be like, going to check the mail, come back to it. Eventually it started to piss me off because 5-15x a week is enough sex with 1-3 orgasms per (generally).

2/21/2009 7:02:26 PM

if it were the other way around i would be livid

2/21/2009 7:05:43 PM

Quote :

"if she has to do it herself then you should be ashamed"

2/21/2009 7:08:43 PM

it doesn't bother me one bit when a girl starts pleasuring herself - but that is usually a cue for me to jump on in

2/21/2009 7:09:26 PM

smoothcrim.... you couldnt handle that nympho bro

sucks brah

2/21/2009 7:10:55 PM

anyone who masturbates excessively has a problem (in my opinion) because at that point when they do have sex it isn't even about the relationship it's about getting off and well... that's just not romantic or hot or pleasing in any kind of way

2/21/2009 7:11:50 PM

What do you mean by excessively?

2/21/2009 7:19:54 PM

Quote :

"Eventually it started to piss me off because 5-15x a week is enough sex with 1-3 orgasms per (generally)."

Please give me this girl's number.

Unless she's fat then n/m.

2/21/2009 7:19:58 PM