on her husband for you, then she would be willing to cheat on you with someone else.

True or False

5/22/2010 1:35:32 PM

true

but dude, if all you are is her fuck buddy, she has no obligation to you

5/22/2010 1:36:38 PM

true

5/22/2010 1:37:40 PM

true, same deal if its just a bf

5/22/2010 1:40:55 PM

Same with guys who cheat on their SOs.

5/22/2010 1:42:13 PM

True.

Bitch just likes getting what she can't have.

5/22/2010 1:47:14 PM

i don't follow any of this logic

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

5/22/2010 1:49:31 PM

I think it is true.

[Edited on May 22, 2010 at 1:56 PM. Reason : and sad]

5/22/2010 1:51:39 PM

i made the mistake of being with a girl that left her bf to be with me. a few years later in our relationship, she cheated on me as well. if they cheat to be with you, chances are they'll keep on doing it.

5/22/2010 1:57:42 PM

i fell in love with two former cheaters

and they both ended up cheating on me

this thread is spot-on

5/22/2010 1:59:59 PM

Once a cheater always a cheater.

5/22/2010 2:04:22 PM

Some women are DRIVEN to cheat. In that type of situation I can imagine it could work out happily for the next partner. It's easy to blame the other person.

5/22/2010 2:04:27 PM

quit taking her side

5/22/2010 2:24:53 PM

Quote :

"Once a cheater always a cheater."

5/22/2010 2:27:21 PM

driven to cheat?

ha! if you wanna cheat, get out of the relationship THEN do whatever you want.

and this is true...she MIGHT not cheat, but youve already started your relationship on pretty terrible terms.

5/22/2010 2:28:06 PM

True.

HOWEVER, infidelity is a symptom of deeper relationship problems and not the cause of the relationship problems. Infidelity is just one of many ways that people react to certain types of relationship stress and once that is in a persons repertoire, it's not unlikely to happen again be it in the same relationship or another one. I think that it is a little more complex than 'once a cheater always a cheater.'

5/22/2010 2:31:58 PM

If they want to be with another person, then they should end their supposedly monogamous relationship to do so.

If they aren't willing to do that, then they are a cheater, and will cheat on you too.

5/22/2010 2:38:32 PM

Sometimes it isn't as simple as wanting to end a relationship or be with someone else. Sometimes their current relationship is not fulfilling them in someway (be it emotionally or sexually) and they seek out what's missing outside of their current relationship. Like I said, it's a symptom of a bigger problem.

[Edited on May 22, 2010 at 2:51 PM. Reason : .]

5/22/2010 2:42:40 PM

umm, none of that contradicts "once a cheater, always a cheater."

[Edited on May 22, 2010 at 2:44 PM. Reason : or "if she'll cheat for you, she'll cheat on you"]

5/22/2010 2:44:12 PM

you seem to both know a lot about this and sound somewhat defensive

methinks you a lyin cheatin two-bit skank

5/22/2010 2:44:44 PM

I agreed with the statement, I just stated that I thought it was a more complex issue.

And I'm not so much defensive as I am a doctor's office magazine reader. There are a bazillion articles out there in mommy-land on surviving infidelity right along side spicing up your marriage after childbirth etc.

5/22/2010 2:51:00 PM

likely story

5/22/2010 3:01:07 PM

Quote :

"Once a cheater always a cheater."

5/22/2010 4:27:17 PM

TRUE.

I don't ever trust people who are knowingly the "other woman/man", either.

5/22/2010 4:44:26 PM

Quote :

"HOWEVER, infidelity is a symptom of deeper relationshippsychological problems and not the cause of the relationship problems."

5/22/2010 4:45:13 PM

^^ That too. I was on another thread and some guy was talking about how all girls can be cheaters, and he said he's had several friends' girlfriends cheat on them with him.

I was like, WTF kind of friend are you anyway?

5/22/2010 4:48:30 PM

5/22/2010 4:50:10 PM

If I was dating a hot girl that happened to be married, I wouldn't care if she cheated on me... She's hot and thats all I'd look forward to that relationship. If she ran to another guy instead of me, I'd still be pretty happy with what I had. Plus the x amount of video tape sex sessions that would generate continuous revenue for me on a porn website would be a nice send off gift.

5/22/2010 5:08:48 PM

Quote :

"If I was dating a hot girl that happened to be married, I wouldn't care if she cheated on me... She's hot and thats all I'd look forward to that relationship. If she ran to another guy instead of me, I'd still be pretty happy with what I had. Plus the x amount of video tape sex sessions that would generate continuous revenue for me on a porn website would be a nice send off gift."

Spoken like someone with low self-esteem.

5/22/2010 5:09:45 PM

if I had low self-esteem then in this hypothetical situation, I wouldn't be dating a hot married woman...

5/22/2010 5:11:51 PM

I've been on the giving and receiving end of some cheating.

But all occurred after the relationship was already over. So in my opinion, the main thing done wrong was that either party wasn't man enough to break up when they knew the relationship was finished...which I'm guilty of. I felt bad after it happened, but I've never come close to cheating while I was in love and committed to a relationship.

5/22/2010 5:14:59 PM

True, and vice versa.

5/22/2010 5:20:39 PM

Quote :

"if I had low self-esteem then in this hypothetical situation, I wouldn't be dating a hot married woman..."

haha, thats what I meant "hypothetically" you would have low self esteem

5/22/2010 5:23:09 PM

For the record, having an affair with a married woman is something I would never do. I have done some things i regret in life, but I draw a line there. Although I do have a married woman, who is an old friend of mine, seriously sweating my nuts

5/22/2010 5:26:54 PM

if she cheated with you the husband could sue you
just fyi

5/22/2010 5:31:00 PM

Quote :

"haha, thats what I meant "hypothetically" you would have low self esteem "

Oww, got me there. lol

Although I do have a big ego and high confidence.

5/22/2010 5:31:11 PM

^^ huh?

5/22/2010 5:33:39 PM

if the wife cheated on the husband with him the husband could sue him for alienation of affection and make bank

5/22/2010 5:35:01 PM

Quote :

"if she cheated with you the husband could sue you just fyi"

wha? For what? getting him out of a bad marriage? If she was a cunt, he'd probably pay you as a reward so she didn't get half of his money.

And fyi, you can sue people with no basis what so ever, doesn't mean you'd win.


^HAHAHAH, he would become the biggest pussy after that court debacle. Seriously, cut your ties and run. Only lawyers would win anything.

[Edited on May 22, 2010 at 5:37 PM. Reason : ^]

5/22/2010 5:35:38 PM

Quote :

"if the wife cheated on the husband with him the husband could sue him for alienation of affection and make bank"

yup.

5/22/2010 5:38:35 PM

^^no, its a real thing and its been used successfully. NC is a state that allows alienation of affection damages.

section 13:
http://www.ncga.state.nc.us/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/ByChapter/Chapter_52.html

[Edited on May 22, 2010 at 5:40 PM. Reason : ,,]

5/22/2010 5:40:30 PM

wow... thought it was a bad joke. I stand corrected. Still the guy would be a pussy after the trial.

So its a new thing then? says 2009?

[Edited on May 22, 2010 at 5:46 PM. Reason : ]

5/22/2010 5:44:01 PM

no in 2009 they changed it so you can't seek damages if you were separated with the intention of getting divorced when it happened.

5/22/2010 5:50:26 PM

5/22/2010 5:56:50 PM

True.

Quote :

"I don't ever trust people who are knowingly the "other woman/man", either."

A-FUCKING-MEN.

I refuse to enable such behavior.

5/22/2010 6:05:17 PM

umm... as if someone like you could get some whether or not you or your partner cheated

5/22/2010 6:06:47 PM

spoken like a true asswipe

5/22/2010 6:13:22 PM

Quote :

"HOWEVER, infidelity is a symptom of deeper relationshippsychological problems and not the cause of the relationship problems."

That's incredibly naive. If the were not already flaws in the relationship, the affair would have never occurred in the first place. Solid relationships require nurturing and should be founded in open communication and mutual respect. Relationships where both parties are engaged and open rarely devolve into infidelity because the attraction or need would have been discussed and dealt with.

5/22/2010 6:36:12 PM

Every Woman is a Cheating Whore
Oh yes, that’s right. That’s what I said. And I said it because it’s true. All women are cheaters.

I don’t mean this to be a provocateur or to prance around in the realm of the hypothetical like some kind of dandy. I mean, flat out, that every woman in the world is a cheater, has cheated, and is probably cheating at this very moment.

Getting a woman to cheat on her husband or significant other is not like getting a woman to go to the gym — by heaping shitloads of gifts and attention on her like a spoilt child and then ultimately getting no burn for your earn. Getting a woman to cheat is like getting a duck to eat bread crumbs or a rat to eat rubbish. All you have to do is toss it in front of their face.

It’s not a hard conclusion to draw, so let’s just look at the facts. Getting attention from men is a woman’s lifeblood. That’s why women worship men in the form of menial tasks that they’re not very good at — because men control our attention like the gods of old controlled the sun and the crypt. We giveth and we can taketh away.

Good attention, bad attention, the worst kind of attention; it doesn’t matter. To a woman, being in a Girls Gone Wild video is just as laudable as serving in a highly respected public office. They stack up eyeballs like empty pie plates at a NOW convention.

So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul?

Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it.

Not even guilt will stop women from being the cheating harlots that they are. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I shit you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman true cheating requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. If the only evidence of infidelity you can produce is that she got drunk and put herself in a compromising position, you’re up argument creek without a chance in hell.

Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, or to “rape” her, that doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just another horrible thing that’s happened to poor defenseless her in this dog eat dog, man-world of rape happy abusers. That’s obviously a bunch of bullshit, but stand back because it gets worse.

Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as cheating. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub? They’re like porno pamphlets in Vegas. Sometimes I can’t even get to work without getting two or three.

Bullshit.

Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be cheaters as well when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is like getting pregnant. It’s 100% a woman’s fault 100% of the time.

5/22/2010 7:03:31 PM

Thank you thank you, we know. Men are better than women.

5/22/2010 7:07:06 PM