i want to marry him, but then i think to myself, did i make a mistake?


what does tdub think about sometimes questioning my relationship? when i question, does that mean it automatically won't work out or, does that just happen and if the good times are more than the bad, i should just work it out? when is it that you work hard enough or stay because true love takes that much work?

7/4/2010 12:19:45 AM

mawiage, mawiage is wat bwings us togedder today

7/4/2010 12:20:51 AM

i'd worry more about the reasons you're questioning it, as opposed to the actual questioning itself.

7/4/2010 12:25:07 AM

I've made a huge mistake

7/4/2010 12:26:22 AM

yeah you have...with your bad link. PREPARE TO BE MOCKED.

7/4/2010 12:34:04 AM

fdt?

7/4/2010 12:49:54 AM

dtf?

7/4/2010 12:54:08 AM

you are asking TWW whether or not you ought to marry someone.

I give you 3 years at this whole life thing.

7/4/2010 1:35:24 AM

no dipshit, i'm not asking that. i'm asking when you think it's not worth the work. fucking a.

7/4/2010 3:31:41 PM

What are the questions? Will he not make enough money? Not be a good father? Not be faithful? Dick not big enough?

I think if you have questions at all then you're probably not mentally ready regardless of the guy.

7/4/2010 3:36:42 PM

well, i'm ready for it, i'm jut wondering if it was with him. he provides for me, but really it's like his dad is providing for me. he promises to get in school by fall, but he's not looking, he doesn't have a job, but i know he's smart, he's just lazy. when is it enough waiting?

7/4/2010 3:43:00 PM

why don't you tell him this? Maybe if he realizes you're questioning the relationship because he's not putting in what he needs to, then he'll make the extra effort to make it right. If not, maybe it wasn't meant to be.

and just so you know if you are serious about this then don't go to tww for answers. be smart about it.

7/4/2010 3:49:45 PM

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" but i know he's smart, he's just lazy."

lol

girls tend to think their guy is "smart" regardless of if he is or not... and he doesn't really sound like he is from your brief description in this thread.

You're probably just afraid of being perceived as the bitchy lonely girl and you won't jump ship until you know you've got another relationship waiting for you.

[Edited on July 4, 2010 at 3:55 PM. Reason : ]

7/4/2010 3:54:16 PM

Kate, I really wish you had brought this up to me in private instead of broadcasting our dirty laundry on TWW

7/4/2010 4:20:04 PM

7/4/2010 4:21:53 PM