but you aren't actually dating per se, is it wrong to hang out exclusively with other chicks that you actually wanted to date in the past but couldn't?

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8/14/2010 4:04:04 PM

there's no need to worry about hypothetical situations.

8/14/2010 4:12:50 PM

i'm sure you worry about hypothetical situations on a regular basis way more than i do

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8/14/2010 4:30:48 PM

how can you be "hanging out exclusively" when there's clearly at least 2 girls involved

[Edited on August 14, 2010 at 5:04 PM. Reason : or did you mean platonically ]

8/14/2010 5:04:00 PM

if it's not Facebook official, you're a free man

8/14/2010 5:35:42 PM

i'm sure the girl you're dating would get a kick out of you staying in the friend zone with someone else. go for it

who the fuck hangs out with chicks they wanted to date but "couldn't"???

8/14/2010 6:18:32 PM

If you're making up terms like "hang out exclusively," I'm pretty sure you're doing something wrong.

8/14/2010 6:21:12 PM

if anything, hanging out with other chicks will make her like you more.

8/14/2010 6:50:15 PM

SHOW HER THE BLUE COCK AND YOU ARE SET MY FRIEND

8/14/2010 6:51:06 PM

Quote :

"If you're making up terms like "hang out exclusively," I'm pretty sure you're doing something wrong."

8/14/2010 7:04:04 PM

You have a chick who wants to date but you aren't actually dating per se, is it wrong to hang out exclusively with other chicks that you actually want to date in the past but couldn't?

There, I said it.

8/14/2010 7:05:37 PM

Because it's YOUR dog

8/14/2010 7:11:58 PM

Couldn't date chick #2 in the past because she had a bf and was like 3 states away. I like the one I'm seeing now but its not going to last very long. That being said I don't want to end it on the grounds of being sketchy with other broads.

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8/14/2010 7:55:23 PM

Have you have met a girl that you tried to date, but a year to make love she wanted you to wait?

8/14/2010 7:56:22 PM

hang out with whoever you want and if it gets serious with anyone, just spend time with them. the other one will get the idea.

8/14/2010 8:05:41 PM

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"Couldn't date chick #2 in the past because she had a bf and was like 3 states away. I like the one I'm seeing now but its not going to last very long. That being said I don't want to end it on the grounds of being sketchy with other broads. "

Why can't you just man the fuck up and be honest. Say, "Hey, this ain't going to last long..." go from there, and if you score with chick #2 your other lady friend, then you score. If not, you just said it's not going to last long anyways so why draw it out and create unneccesary drama later? Seize the mother fucking day dude.

[Edited on August 14, 2010 at 8:27 PM. Reason : .]

8/14/2010 8:27:14 PM

I'm so glad that I'm married and don't have to worry about this kind of bullshit.

8/14/2010 8:29:56 PM

personally i would just do what the fuck i wanted, personally

8/14/2010 8:32:30 PM

^^^Amen.

8/14/2010 9:27:52 PM

I guess I kinda like to go with the flow

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8/14/2010 9:37:04 PM

Unless you have any idea where that flow might be going or understand what/where your boundaries are... going with the flow is a mighty bad idea.

Someone once told me:

Quote :

"The problem with going with the flow is that you typically end up in situations where you're "peeing in your own pool.""

This is coming from a guy who generally goes with the flow.

[Edited on August 14, 2010 at 9:42 PM. Reason : .]

8/14/2010 9:41:06 PM

Whoever told you that must be a freakin' genius.

8/14/2010 9:43:14 PM

More men need to do what shmorri2 said and MAN THE FUCK UP.

8/14/2010 9:43:45 PM

^^Well, they're older than me and I appreciate their wisdom/outlook.

^ yeah, it is easier said than done. Hell, I've had my moments where I sometimes hesitate to (MTFU) man the fuck up, but ultimately, I know it needs to be done. I've just about gotten burned enough times now.

[Edited on August 14, 2010 at 9:45 PM. Reason : .]

[Edited on August 14, 2010 at 9:46 PM. Reason : ^ Hey egyeyes ]

8/14/2010 9:44:04 PM

Chief wins.

8/14/2010 11:09:33 PM

i pee in my own lagoon

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8/15/2010 1:11:21 AM