This is a thread about nothing really.


I really like a girl but she has no future, has no motivation in life, sees herself as growing up to be the old lady that passes out homemade cookies to kids in the neighborhood. She smokes, she likes trucks, she likes working on trucks, she works 12 hours a day in fast food jobs. She's a single mother. She has baby daddy drama. She picks loser dudes. She's poor. Her mother is a drug addict.
She doesn't know how to account for her money.

Even with all that shit going on, I can tell she is a good person at heart. She is compassionate. She is kind. She is independent. She knows how to survive. She still has her good looks.

She is mostly everything that I'm not.

I could give her everything that she doesn't have. I could show her the path to being successful.

I could point her in the right direction. She has potential she can't see. She deserves it.

But

I can't do ANY of it, because I know she won't be committed to a 5,10,15, or even 20 year restoration of her life.

yet I can't stop thinking about what a waste it is.

8/27/2010 4:59:38 PM

oh, i know her. i dated her for 2 years.

I dropped out of college, fucked up my credit. eventually did 48 hours in Wake County with 6 months DOSE classes.





[Edited on August 27, 2010 at 5:03 PM. Reason : oh, she got a babydaddy now? well, that don't surprise me none.]

8/27/2010 5:02:11 PM

Oddly enough, his name is joe.

8/27/2010 5:05:55 PM

8/27/2010 5:06:31 PM

A flash of genius?

8/27/2010 7:06:50 PM

ITT

8/27/2010 7:08:50 PM

life is what you make of it, not what others make of it for you.

8/27/2010 8:03:17 PM

this sounds like another girl thread from b4c or another user of the like.

8/27/2010 9:30:35 PM

8/27/2010 9:43:41 PM