long term relationship...

Do you ever think you might want to get married again?

11/9/2010 12:29:56 PM

My friend got divorced. he says he'll never marry again. I bet he does though in 5 years

11/9/2010 12:31:05 PM

most of my friends who got divorced are now remarried.

11/9/2010 12:35:57 PM

it should be illegal to be married before you're like, 30

11/9/2010 12:37:06 PM

when I get sick from eating oysters I say I'll never eat them raw again
but I always do it anyway

I guess what I'm trying to say is don't let that rare bad oyster and night of shitting and puking all over ruin the rest of your life

11/9/2010 12:37:42 PM

^^ take that back!

11/9/2010 12:38:57 PM

^^^

by all means if you don't find the person worth marrying then don't force yourself into something early, but sometimes you just find that person that isn't worth letting go of. Can't control when that happens

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 12:40 PM. Reason : .]

11/9/2010 12:39:16 PM

I would use a divorce to get with a much younger wife.

11/9/2010 12:39:41 PM

My dad said that after his second divorce, but he got married again about 7 years later (to a very sweet lady, might I add).

To his credit, his second wife was one of the biggest cunts I've ever met. I would probably swear off marriage if I had to be married to her for 5+ years as well.

I also agree with this:

Quote :

"it should be illegal to be married before you're like, 30"

Quote :

"but sometimes you just find that person that isn't worth letting go of. Can't control when that happens "

Then don't let them go. Why do you need a marriage certificate to "not let go"???

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 12:41 PM. Reason : .]

11/9/2010 12:40:14 PM

/shrug. We were together for several years before we got married. If you know you're planning to spend the rest of your life with someone, it makes sense to me the way our government is set up to get married.

11/9/2010 12:44:44 PM

So for tax reasons then?

11/9/2010 12:47:04 PM

yea that definitely helps. I mean, for us as a couple, we didn't need any certificate to tell us that we wanted to stay together, but the ceremonial aspect of making the commitment was enjoyable to share with friends and family. We kept the rings and the ceremony on the cheap side and went on a great honeymoon. It was kind of nice to physically make that sort of commitment after being together for several years, even though we already knew we wanted to be together.

Hard to explain. We would be just as happy with each other right now if we weren't officially married but there are benefits (taxes being one of them) and the ceremonial aspect was fulfilling.

11/9/2010 12:51:18 PM

I thought marriage was very un-american

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 12:53 PM. Reason : divorce on the other hand....]

11/9/2010 12:52:48 PM

i will definitely get married again, but not do the young immature thing thinking i need to be rushed and that my life is on a timetable.

11/9/2010 12:57:10 PM

After my Mom and Dad divorce, they both told me to never get married. My mom is now remarried and my dad is engaged.

11/9/2010 12:57:54 PM

^ lawl


After my parents divorced, my mom went on a few dates then started seeing my now-stepdad... They have been together for over 10 years now and are happily married


My dad, on the other hand, married the same evil bitch... TWICE. Literally. They got married, then got a divorce. Then got married AGAIN, then got divorced again. I am happy to report he's now dating a woman who isn't a succubus

11/9/2010 1:00:26 PM

Lol at getting married for tax benefits. That money you save will be exponentially lost when you get divorced and lose half your shit.


I laugh out loud at people that give tax benefits as a reason to get married.


Also, it's cheap and dishonest to marry-up and steal half the earnings that someone else earned on their own.

Marriage has lost all meaning once you bring money into the picture.

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 1:02 PM. Reason : .]

11/9/2010 1:02:01 PM

Quote :

"it should be illegal to be married before you're like, 30"

says the single guy living in his moms basement

11/9/2010 1:02:53 PM

^^ Then explain the purpose of arranged marriages

Money/wealth/prosperity has long been a reason for people to get married

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 1:03 PM. Reason : d]

11/9/2010 1:03:13 PM

Quote :

"it should be illegal to be married before you're like, 25"

11/9/2010 1:04:29 PM

Me 'n Lucy got divorced

and remarried

and then annulled 2 days later

11/9/2010 1:04:47 PM

^^^^I think BobbyDigital is married with a kid.

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 1:05 PM. Reason : .]

11/9/2010 1:04:54 PM

o hai

And I'd marry you again in a heartbeat, boo

11/9/2010 1:06:05 PM

Vegas again?

11/9/2010 1:08:38 PM

Quote :

"Then explain the purpose of arranged marriages Money/wealth/prosperity has long been a reason for people to get married "

People do things for the wrong reasons all the time. They are incapable of using logic correctly and/or use logic for corruption.

11/9/2010 1:08:44 PM

haha wrong thread

[Edited on November 9, 2010 at 1:10 PM. Reason : .]

11/9/2010 1:09:41 PM

^ haha! I have both threads open as well so I figured that's what you did

11/9/2010 1:10:18 PM

Quote :

"People do things for the wrong reasons all the time. They are incapable of using logic correctly and/or use logic for corruption."

In the middle ages, getting married for LOVE was a bit of a novelty. And in many countries, this is still the case.

Some people think that if you get married and it's not for love, then it's not for the right reason. But you need more than love to make it work.

11/9/2010 1:13:09 PM

wait, why'd my name get invoked?

11/9/2010 1:14:15 PM

Quote :

"But you need more than love to make it work."

Sure you need more than love to make it work but what is a marriage without love?

11/9/2010 1:14:48 PM

what are you even arguing? Do you even know?

11/9/2010 1:15:35 PM

i like the direction this thread has shifted to

11/9/2010 1:15:43 PM

Quote :

"his second wife was one of the biggest cunts I've ever met"

I don't get how this happens. Anyone who knows me knows I will stay in a relationship well past its expiration date, but I have never even remotely considered marrying a woman I wasn't madly in love with.

11/9/2010 1:15:51 PM

Both me and my GF got out of very long-term relationships right before we started dating. We are both also divorced, although her marriage lasted quite a bit longer than mine. In our situation, we both know we are going to get married, but we aren't in any rush.

11/9/2010 1:17:23 PM

Quote :

"Sure you need more than love to make it work but what is a marriage without love?"

A legal and business agreement

11/9/2010 1:17:55 PM

Finding out there are more divorced t-dubbers than I thought ITT.

11/9/2010 1:19:12 PM

I think if people marry without being in love then they are a fraud, but if people marry only because of love, then they are idiots.

11/9/2010 1:20:07 PM

some guys just love cunts

11/9/2010 1:21:11 PM

Quote :

"Sure you need more than love to make it work but what is a marriage without love? "

11/9/2010 1:23:06 PM

holler we want PRENUP we want PRENUP yeeeaaaaahhhhhh!!

I'm getting a pre-nup when i hook the lock on the ball and chain...once divorce is announced, love is out the window and 10 time out of 10 the dude gets shafted by the court system both financially and personally (kids)...

11/9/2010 1:24:16 PM

Confirm or deny:

New divorcees keep their pussies freshly trimmed and smelling fantastic.

11/9/2010 1:24:53 PM

confirm

11/9/2010 1:26:09 PM

the topic was too all inclusive and then the people that haven't been through it are assuming they're familiar with the feeling

11/9/2010 1:27:30 PM

Deny

Quote :

"According to investigators, Williams--who lives four doors down from her estranged husband at the 77 Motor Inn--showed up at his door and asked Danny Williams and another man to “eat my pussy.” At this point, Williams, pictured in the mug shot at right, “commenced to undress herself,” reported Deputy Ross Mellinger. While Danny Williams “declined said invitation,” the other man, Adam Watson, told cops that he “agreed to perform at her request.” However, as Watson approached Williams, “he became overwhelmed by horrible vaginal odor emitting from Melissa Williams.” Watson, understandably, “declined to proceed any further.”"

http://thesmokinggun.com/buster/west-virginia/woman-utters-line-never-previously-recorded-police-report

11/9/2010 1:28:07 PM

11/9/2010 1:29:41 PM

Ok. Then we change it to If you are divorced, and none of that having been in a life changing long term relationship. Most relationships are life changing to some degree, methinks.

11/9/2010 1:30:27 PM

im never getting married

11/9/2010 1:30:58 PM

Someone told me that eating pussy tastes like coins.

CONFIRM/DENY...

11/9/2010 1:31:14 PM

i understand why it was phrased as it was in the topic, just that people take "life changing" as "i became single, thus my life changed".

11/9/2010 1:31:39 PM

confirm

11/9/2010 1:32:07 PM