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about 5 weeks ago I had a big falling out with my two best buds and I've been trying to patch things up.

the first guy, we'll name him Kyle, has been my close friend for about 6 years. the other guy (Greg) is his roommate and I've only know him for about a year. I had a falling out with Greg five weeks ago and Kyle has been trying to patch things up.

I kept asking Greg to hang out, trying to be cool with him and he says he doesn't have a problem with me but everytime I've extended an offer for us all to get together he bails. This past week he said he wanted to hang out this weekend... but never got up with me and I found out today that he invited a bunch of our mutual friends over last night... cept me.

Kyle doesn't understand why I don't feel welcome at their house and is frustrated with me (because Kyle has asked me to come over multiple times) but seeing as how Greg is the one who has the problem with me, I don't feel comfortable going over unless he invites me... does this make sense?

Halp

Thanks tww

2/13/2011 10:08:45 PM

k

2/13/2011 10:09:33 PM

lol great!

2/13/2011 10:10:31 PM

Move on.....profit!

2/13/2011 10:11:01 PM

what did you do to piss him off?

that matters

2/13/2011 10:11:01 PM

Looks like you may just have to cut your losses until he comes around...and then when he does come around tell him he was a douche for the shit he pulled and don't even worry about it cause you've moved on.

2/13/2011 10:11:10 PM

so go chill with kyle when he wants to, but fuck greg

[Edited on February 13, 2011 at 10:12 PM. Reason : this is not difficult]

2/13/2011 10:12:17 PM

it depends what happened between you two.

2/13/2011 10:12:31 PM

Greg wants in your pants and you have put him in friend zone

Kyle also wants in your pants...so since Greg has given up (sorta) he's now trying his best to do so

You are oblivious to the fact they want up in them guts

2/13/2011 10:12:35 PM

Well, you haven't said what caused the falling out. If you cockblocked him, that's a slight bit different than calling him an asshole to his face, etc. And yes it does matter what the reason was.

2/13/2011 10:12:49 PM

It depends on the nature of the falling out... it may not be salvageable.

2/13/2011 10:12:52 PM

LOL @ elkaybie

2/13/2011 10:13:15 PM

i, too, went to college

2/13/2011 10:13:19 PM

what was the initial argument about?

oh God... its lame

they had a big party at the beginning of the semester and i didnt feel like going and TOLD both of them that i wasn't going to go... but then the next day they were all pissed off at me that i didnt come

the next weekend, Greg and i went out w/o Kyle and as i was driving Greg home, he got all bitchy and was asking why i didn't come and told me that 'i dont feel like it' wasn't a good reason and he wouldn't drop it and we said some mean things... blah blah

so the NEXT week i texted Greg and was like "you know what, this is bullshit lets just move on" and he seemed cool but alas is obviously avoiding me.

2/13/2011 10:14:58 PM

So he hates you because you didn't hang out once?

2/13/2011 10:15:56 PM

dude he does really wanna bang you...

2/13/2011 10:17:14 PM

they're mad because you didn't come to a shitty house party?

sound like some triflin' bitches

2/13/2011 10:17:22 PM

sounds like they have some growing up to do

2/13/2011 10:17:33 PM

just ignore whoever you want to talk to you again

ignore them profusely

people can't stand that

2/13/2011 10:17:42 PM

Quote :

"So he hates you because you didn't hang out once?"

Thus preventing said drunk fest and possibility of getting some o that

2/13/2011 10:18:04 PM

yeah, they got really mad

im like one of their only girl friends who is truly just a friend and who hangs out with the guys (cuz all of our other girl friends are attached) so i didn't think it was a big deal that i didn't go because they had invited a bunch of 'prospect' girls so i figured i'd just stay out of their way for the night right?? WRONG

their 'prospects' didn't even show up, lol, but i didnt find that out until the next day...

im in graduate school, i dont want to go to some undergrad house party, i mean they're all super-seniors but i still didn't really feel like going

2/13/2011 10:19:43 PM

that's exactly what he sounds like.

and since now he assumes that you're not into him like that he doesn't really give a shit about trying to hang out with you anymore.

He's like the creeper guys on tww....just irl.

2/13/2011 10:19:47 PM

There were never any "prospects"...just you

2/13/2011 10:22:06 PM

its weird because Kyle and i have been talking but he feels like he's in the middle of this drama (which he is)

and Greg has texted me a few times but its been really weird (we used to text everyday like all day cuz we're lame like that)

i honestly don't give two shits about Greg, i think he is an attention whore but Kyle is super important to me because we've been really close since we were freshmen and hes just an awesome guy.

2/13/2011 10:22:10 PM

well you could just screw kyle so it's out in the open which side kyle has taken.

2/13/2011 10:23:48 PM

Greg sounds like a whiny little bitch. Fuck him.

2/13/2011 10:24:00 PM

greg liked you and thought you might like him, and your passive dismissal of his party was taken as you playing mind games, thus not only is he "fed up" with you, his reason for hanging out with you no longer exists, so he doesn't try to. He feels jilted...

2/13/2011 10:26:05 PM

^^^hahahahahahaha

2/13/2011 10:26:26 PM

neither of them like me as more than a friend, and never have... im positive, Greg is just being a bitch

i wish he'd grow a pair

2/13/2011 10:28:33 PM

What are you, twelve years old?

2/13/2011 10:29:39 PM

but yeah in all honestly...any more when a friend acts like that you pretty much just cut your losses. There is no point in being involved in drama. This isn't high school anymore...you just say fuck it and hang out with your other friends.

2/13/2011 10:31:57 PM

Quick question: are they gay? Else which one did you bwn?

2/13/2011 10:33:50 PM

usually i do cut people out who are bullshitting like that

but Kyle was like "no, i don't want you being mad at my roommate" so i tried to work things out but he's being a dick

thanks tww for your halp!

2/13/2011 10:34:20 PM

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" You are oblivious to the fact they want up in them guts 2/13/2011 10:12:35 PM "

2/13/2011 10:35:05 PM

Well let Kyle know that there is only so much you can do and that Greg also has to be ready to meet in the middle.

Kyle shouldn't be expecting you to do all the work.

2/13/2011 10:35:53 PM

i really thing greg did like you based on his behavior

kyle...well kyle could be your platonic friend OR just the type of guy that is so in love with you and wants to see you happy that he is ok being in friend zone for the rest of his life.

but i think greg did have a crush and now feels rejected.

i don't really know what to do about kyle. i'd say just go hang out. who cares if greg is being weird with you...maybe if you just go hang out at their places he'll realize he can't get rid of your presence (since you are kyle's friend and kyle lives there too) and will at least act civil. then at least you won't be pissing kyle off.

[Edited on February 13, 2011 at 10:37 PM. Reason : .]

2/13/2011 10:37:28 PM

i can only give you advice if you post ... you know, post em.

2/13/2011 10:41:20 PM

lol, trust me, they're not gay and our friendships are all platonic

im 100% positive Kyle does not have feelings for me, but he values my friendship

and im 99.99% sure that Greg did not have feelings for me either

2/13/2011 10:42:09 PM

Nawh, they are acting like bitches, so either one or both want to be more than friends and you are just oblivious to that (typical)........

2/13/2011 10:43:49 PM

yea, i think you might be in denial

they want to fuck you

or maybe even date you

but def fuck you

this is the honest truth. the way of the world. birds and the bees.

2/13/2011 10:44:43 PM

^

And now sleep with the cooler of the two and be done with it!

2/13/2011 10:45:51 PM

Yeah, in a month or two she will have another thread......Kyle vs Greg.....and she can't decide which one.......

2/13/2011 10:46:38 PM

Sleep with both and then decide!

2/13/2011 10:47:23 PM

Either way one is gonna hate you forever.......

2/13/2011 10:48:01 PM

Quote :

"Greg wants in your pants and you have put him in friend zone Kyle also wants in your pants...so since Greg has given up (sorta) he's now trying his best to do so You are oblivious to the fact they want up in them guts"

and they sound like winnersweiners

2/13/2011 10:49:58 PM

omg, we have gotten way off topic

neither of them want to bwn, 100% certain.

2/13/2011 10:50:46 PM

you are 100% wrong

2/13/2011 10:51:34 PM

So they are gay? Did you try bwning either?

2/13/2011 10:52:04 PM

There's only ONE reason a straight dude wants to hang out with a chick...


And that's the source of this dudes shitty attitude.

2/13/2011 10:52:55 PM

unless you are like a beached whale or have like 4 eyes (maybe even then, who knows)

your guy friends (unless gay, and even if gay they have probably still pictured you without your clothes on and want to touch your boobs), on SOME LEVEL, want to fuck you and have thought about it. its seriously true.

just consider this an intervention. i went through a similar one. it doesn't mean they're necessarily in love with you (although one of these two seems to be, because of the hard feelings)...but they want to a) see you naked b) touch your boobs and c) fuck you.

2/13/2011 10:54:24 PM