1. words.

2. tl;dr

3. so i met this crazy 38 year old on thursday night at the shows ... said her friends were lame and didnt want to see some of the shows she wanted to see and wanted to tag along with our group if we were cool with it.

so we let her and she then met up with us last night. shes attractive and has a great body and seemed fun and entertaining. well i started making out with her later in the night and while doing so she stopped me and to tell me that she was fucking MARRIED.

now i was drunk and the scope of the situation didnt hit me immediately. i didnt make out with her any more that night and she left soon after to go home. she then sends me some naked pictures later on the night.

she said her marriage is over and that she is going to leave him and what not but from i gathered (assume) is that they have not settled this shit between them.

Now - is the juice worth the squeeze? im leaning toward no but my dick is saying yes.
i really dont want to get between a married couples problems but i dont know the entire situation.
it just SCREAMS drama drama drama to me.

4. tww is not a blg

9/10/2011 2:00:48 PM

drama drama drama

9/10/2011 2:01:37 PM

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"she said her marriage is over and that she is going to leave him"

Make sure she isn't going to leave her husband for you...you could have a clingy girl in your future

9/10/2011 2:03:15 PM

Now, I do have a question:

This girl - is she everything to you?

9/10/2011 2:03:24 PM

i know

she has already been texting me this morning asking if she freaked me out last night.

im pretty sure she did but i havent made up mind yet. lol

9/10/2011 2:03:51 PM

If you just want to screw her then yes, just dont expect a relationship.

9/10/2011 2:03:55 PM

Don't do it. Stay away.

Don't listen to your dick. Your dick is an idiot. It will only cause you trouble.



[Edited on September 10, 2011 at 2:05 PM. Reason : ]

9/10/2011 2:03:56 PM

Naw. Stay away from that shit. Tell her to call you when they work that shit out

9/10/2011 2:04:50 PM

why don't you go ahead and post those pictures, i am sure her husband wouldn't mind at this point.

9/10/2011 2:05:12 PM

run

9/10/2011 2:05:37 PM

Do it once. Then disappear.

The hardest part will be abstaining after you've already suckled the seeds of the pomegranate. But it can be done.

9/10/2011 2:05:44 PM

hit dat shit raw dawg and bail

9/10/2011 2:06:59 PM

sam, i think she was just trolling for cock

this girl is not everything to me. i just met her two nights ago. i swear, just once, i would like to have a girl that is interested in me that isnt fucked up. story of my life. i never get a normal girl ... just the BSC variety.

they are all pretty and fun and then BAM - crazy comes out and I get trapped under a rock and a hard place.

9/10/2011 2:07:00 PM

Maybe the problem is you.

9/10/2011 2:08:29 PM

I know the perfect person to ask advice regarding this situation

9/10/2011 2:09:22 PM

If a woman wants the peen you must give it to her...unless you're gay

ARE YOU GAY?

9/10/2011 2:09:32 PM

You ever had your shit pushed in

9/10/2011 2:10:23 PM

@thecoz: oh i think about that often

but...how would it be me when im not the one on medication, in therapy or have ever been "diagnosed with..."

the majorities of the chicks i have dated have.

Quote :

"You ever had your shit pushed in"

thats what im worried about by some upset husband

[Edited on September 10, 2011 at 2:12 PM. Reason : sdfg]

9/10/2011 2:10:49 PM

No, obviously you're not the one causing the problem with these ladies. I just mean that perhaps your personality and your social patterns attract said ladies. Change it up a bit. Hang out with different people. Look elsewhere.

[Edited on September 10, 2011 at 2:13 PM. Reason : ]

9/10/2011 2:12:38 PM

9/10/2011 2:14:16 PM

i've tried that man ... haha. i think im just a crazy chick magnet. i cant escape them.

i mean from bisexual hippy, to a sorority girl, to a preppy fashion freak etc etc etc. i always find that bent needle in the hay stack.

9/10/2011 2:15:29 PM

Maybe you should try dating black women

Some of them can be crazy too.... but they give really good head.

9/10/2011 2:17:26 PM

useless without pics

9/10/2011 2:18:10 PM

done that too ... some of the best sex i ever had

9/10/2011 2:18:52 PM

Your problems seem to be beyond the scope of my advice. Good luck.

9/10/2011 2:20:30 PM

The world is what you make of it.



You can see women as crazy... or you can see them as unique.
You can see them as a celebrated differences... or you can see them as "all girls have this in common"
You'll never find the perfect girl, the odds are stacked against you.

You'd have more luck finding someone more like you by dating a man.
If you like men, do the man thing.
You're not going to find a woman that is a man, because they are attracted to the same thing you're attracted to: women.
If you don't like penis, find a tranny.
but wait, tranny's are crazy for simply existing.

You're fucked. Stay Single.

Unless you welcome women's craziness a.k.a differences with a smile instead of a face

9/10/2011 2:23:22 PM

GOOD LUCK!

9/10/2011 2:23:56 PM

Quote :

"I know the perfect person to ask advice regarding this situation "

LOL

9/10/2011 2:24:09 PM

I could possibly hook you up with my good friend and former lover, WolfpckGrl17

She's 10/10 in the sack, a hard worker, she likes sports, and she is can cook.

9/10/2011 2:24:55 PM

Have you tried men? Sit down with your dick and explain to him how the situation will be from now on and that it better be up to perform.

9/10/2011 2:25:49 PM

Don't do it, dude. It's a slimeball move, potentially bad drama, and in NC, he can sue you for banging her.

9/10/2011 2:38:45 PM

Another EZU grad?

9/10/2011 2:38:46 PM

if they're not living together then go for it

9/10/2011 2:43:42 PM

married is about the only deal breaker i have

but if you are stupid enough to to this, let us know how it turns out

9/10/2011 2:48:30 PM

do you want to end up on the witness stand in a murder trial in Cary?

9/10/2011 2:59:51 PM

Quote :

"Do it once. Then disappear."

9/10/2011 3:00:58 PM

Quote :

" 38 year old "

too old, didn't read.

9/10/2011 3:03:23 PM

I'd say that's a great way to get murdered

9/10/2011 3:04:58 PM

Quote :

"do you want to end up on the witness stand in a murder trial in Cary?"

9/10/2011 3:05:21 PM

If the detractors convince you, send her my way.


Seriously.

9/10/2011 3:06:45 PM

Quote :

"she said her marriage is over and that she is going to leave him and what not "

Even if she leaves him... which I doubt she ever will.... you can't get divorced in NC until you have been seperated for a year and a day. That means you will be with a married women for at least another year.

Save you heart and your morality and tell her until she is legally divorced that you don't want anything to do with her.

9/10/2011 3:07:13 PM

dat 190% not worth it.

9/10/2011 3:07:42 PM

i told her that even though i hated saying it that we couldnt hook up anymore until her situation was dealt with.

im not sure if she is actually separated or not but i made the adult decision. i dont want to chance that statute duke was talking about. not sure if it applies in this situation but ive worked hard for what i have saved this year and dont want to risk it.

/thread

she was fucking cool about it though. #mydickweeps

9/10/2011 3:52:34 PM

Brain triumphs over peen ITT. GG.

9/10/2011 4:14:15 PM

I am guessing she is depressed or not getting enough attention but anyway/where you put it, that is some trouble you don't want.

Also, there are legal ways for her husband to sue your ass if caught in any way.

[Edited on September 10, 2011 at 4:20 PM. Reason : I should read more than half the thread. Resolved. Good for you, Adam. ]

9/10/2011 4:19:33 PM

Quote :

" and in NC, he can sue you for banging her."

Yeah, alienation of affection can fuck yo shit up.

9/10/2011 8:29:27 PM

Yeah...if you're in NC be careful about the alienation of affection....I got threatened to be sued for that just because a guy said he wanted to get together with me and he was married.

9/10/2011 8:38:39 PM

Since 1935, this tort has been abolished in 42 states. Alienation is, however, still recognized in Hawaii, Illinois, North Carolina, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota, and Utah.

It is not necessary to show that the defendant set out to destroy the marital relationship, but only that he or she intentionally engaged in acts which would foreseeably impact on the marriage.

In North Carolina, alienation of affections suits are still regularly pursued, with an estimated 200 lawsuits a year filed. Courts sometimes award large awards, with a few cases in recent years involving awards of over one million dollars. In March 2010, Cynthia Shackelford won a $9 million suit against her husband's alleged mistress.[1] The most recent case, with the judgment handed down early September 2010, boasted the second highest award in the history of such suits. Dr. Lynn Arcara successfully sued her former friend, Susan Pecoraro, who allegedly seduced Arcara's husband while Pecoraro was visiting the couple at their North Carolina home (Pecoraro lives in Maryland). Arcara was nearing the expected delivery date of their unborn child at the time, the couple's first, and her friend, Pecoraro, had come to help Arcara prepare the nursery for the soon-to-be-born child. The alleged affair took place in 2006, and the marriage ended in 2007. Lawyer Cynthia Mills, who represented Arcara, played up the fact that Arcara had been betrayed by her closest friend. Pecoraro's own marriage ended in 2007, after the affair had been discovered.[2] In North Carolina such lawsuits can be filed only for conduct prior to a separation; although, prior to changes in the law which went into effect in October 2009, the tort of criminal conversation applied to post-separation conduct as well.[3] The North Carolina legislature has repeatedly had bills to abolish the tort introduced, and declined to do so.[

Although some trial lawyers support such statutes, many divorce attorneys believe such laws should be repealed.[7] One North Carolina divorce attorney has written: "Adultery is not uncommon, but an alienation-of-affection case just polarizes everyone and devastates everything in its path including the children and both spouses....The world has changed. Women are no longer viewed as property. Alienation-of-affection is something that dates way, way back, and if there was ever a law that needed to be removed, this is it." [7]

9/10/2011 8:42:45 PM

This thread needs pics. Blur the face



But really, I know someone who's parents went through one of those processes. It's fucking ugly, so definitely a good call. My friend hated his parents when that happened and the two hated each other more. And if she's separated and divorced and all before she hits 40, she'll be okay for a short while. Though if still banging after 40, that's cougar territory right?

9/10/2011 8:56:33 PM

How is this even a question?

Go find yourself a new single/divorced cougar

9/10/2011 9:01:59 PM