God All American 28747 Posts user info edit post |
Let's say your significant other has a hot friend who is the same sex as him/her. We all know they do. Everyone does.
Let's say your significant other tells you that they're attracted to that friend, and that they want to sleep with that person.
Is your inclination to:
A) Be disgusted and tell them "No, under no circumstances. That's cheating."
B) Be opposed to it on the grounds that you would be jealous of your significant other for being able to sleep with the hot friend.
C) Be fine with it.
D) Be fine with it as long as you can participate or watch.
E) Comedy answer. 12/13/2011 3:42:57 PM
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mildew Drunk yet Orderly 14177 Posts user info edit post |
E). 12/13/2011 3:43:57 PM
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ssjamind All American 30102 Posts user info edit post |
a bag of walnuts 12/13/2011 3:44:13 PM
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Beethoven86 All American 3001 Posts user info edit post |
I'm confused. Is the hot friend the same sex as the SO?? 12/13/2011 3:45:15 PM
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God All American 28747 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Let's say your significant other has a hot friend who is the same sex as him/her." |
12/13/2011 3:45:50 PM
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sumfoo1 soup du hier 41043 Posts user info edit post |
wait...
i didn't catch gayness...
plz continue...
[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 3:46 PM. Reason : .] 12/13/2011 3:46:01 PM
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Slave Famous Become Wrath 34079 Posts user info edit post |
I don't know any guys who wouldn't be in to this, and I don't know any girls who would
Seems pretty cut and dry to me 12/13/2011 3:46:28 PM
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Tarun almost 11687 Posts user info edit post |
F) where did you copy pasta this from? 12/13/2011 3:47:29 PM
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bottombaby IRL 21958 Posts user info edit post |
If not D, then B. 12/13/2011 3:48:01 PM
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MisterGreen All American 4328 Posts user info edit post |
this thread sucks 12/13/2011 3:50:16 PM
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scotieb24 Commish 11097 Posts user info edit post |
^^ 12/13/2011 3:53:38 PM
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catalyst All American 8704 Posts user info edit post |
is this fucking myspace 12/13/2011 3:54:45 PM
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BJCaudill21 Not an alcoholic 8015 Posts user info edit post |
so if my girlfriend wants to sleep with another girl? she sleeps with girls all the time. she's not attracted to girls though. if she were I'd be fine with it. 12/13/2011 4:25:02 PM
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settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
Tarun wins 12/13/2011 4:37:40 PM
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ncsuallday Sink the Flagship 9818 Posts user info edit post |
I'm pretty sure 99% of girls aren't going to be cool with their bf fucking another guy, even if they get to watch/particpate. with that being said, you should rephrase the question to "if your girlfriend wanted to sleep with one of her friends, is it your inclination to:"
If I was really serious about the relationship I wouldn't go for any of it, but then again I probably wouldn't ever get serious with a girl that was bi. If she was just a booty call then by all means, let them do what they want, and try to get in on it if possible, and as often as possible. 12/13/2011 4:44:57 PM
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Fareako Shitter Pilot 10238 Posts user info edit post |
If my s.o. had a hot girl-friend that she wanted to sleep with, I'd be all for it. Especially if I could participate!  12/13/2011 4:49:55 PM
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settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
Fareako, this just might work out for you 12/13/2011 4:51:05 PM
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Doss2k All American 18474 Posts user info edit post |
I mean is this a one time thing if so then I'd say go for it and if I can watch and/or participate even better. I think if it turned into a regular thing though I would not be a fan. Maybe like a once a year birthday thing or something sure. 12/13/2011 5:07:07 PM
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wdprice3 BinaryBuffonary 45912 Posts user info edit post |
where do trannies fit in with this? 12/13/2011 5:08:05 PM
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pilgrimshoes Suspended 63151 Posts user info edit post |
yall sure sound cool with it now
but if you care about her a lot, your tune will change with the first moan you hear that's being prompted by someone else doing things.
[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 5:09 PM. Reason : e] 12/13/2011 5:08:22 PM
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wdprice3 BinaryBuffonary 45912 Posts user info edit post |
^sorry man. I told you I was good in the sack and obviously your woman thought so, too. I didn't think you would still be bitter over this. 12/13/2011 5:09:53 PM
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bottombaby IRL 21958 Posts user info edit post |
p-shoes speaks troof.
the longer we're together the less happy my hubby is wif my ladies. 12/13/2011 5:10:37 PM
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Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35780 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "but if you care about her a lot, your tune will change with the first moan you hear that's being prompted by someone else doing things." |
i'll have already fapped off to the friend and rolled over 12/13/2011 5:11:51 PM
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pilgrimshoes Suspended 63151 Posts user info edit post |
nga plz u fat 12/13/2011 5:11:58 PM
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Klatypus All American 6786 Posts user info edit post |
^^^lol
[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 5:14 PM. Reason : !] 12/13/2011 5:12:18 PM
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screentest All American 1955 Posts user info edit post |
dump your girlfriend, Gronke 12/13/2011 5:14:06 PM
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Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
A 12/13/2011 5:32:35 PM
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lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
obvs. for the gays it's an easy situation 12/13/2011 5:48:59 PM
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Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
Yeah, really, since all gays are promiscuous. 12/13/2011 5:50:36 PM
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BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
I don't see how this is a question...unless you're in some kind of open, experimental relationship. In that case, you should probably set your own ground rules about this kind of thing.
For more traditional folks, cheating is cheating regardless of the other person's gender. You don't get a free gay sex pass, if that's what you're asking.
[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 6:01 PM. Reason : ] 12/13/2011 5:58:46 PM
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lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
^^I was thinking more like the first person in the situation wouldn't be disgusted by the thought of the second and third people getting it on merely on the basis of their genders.
[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 6:01 PM. Reason : ^tru dat, bisexual != polygamous 12/13/2011 6:00:40 PM
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settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
12/13/2011 6:06:41 PM
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Supplanter supple anteater 21831 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "No, under no circumstances. That's cheating." |
12/13/2011 6:27:35 PM
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Cherokee All American 8264 Posts user info edit post |
I'm between A and B 12/13/2011 7:42:59 PM
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BigEgo Not suspended 24374 Posts user info edit post |
Don't think she'd consider it, and I wouldn't want that anyway. 12/13/2011 7:50:11 PM
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Metricula Squishie Enthusiast 4040 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Yeah, really, since all gays are promiscuous" |
Quote : | "Yeah, really, since all gays bisexuals are promiscuous" |
Quote : | "Yeah, really, since all gays bisexuals people are promiscuous" |
12/13/2011 7:53:26 PM
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ShawnaC123 2019 Egg Champ 46681 Posts user info edit post |
I kinda liked TWW better before God came back. 12/13/2011 7:56:00 PM
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BanjoMan All American 9609 Posts user info edit post |
Dude, if he or she is asking for permission to have sex with someone else then it's like, you know, how do I say "goodbye" in cuban?
But, in all honesty, this is what sucks about committed relationships, you eventually long for something new. 12/13/2011 8:07:27 PM
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Metricula Squishie Enthusiast 4040 Posts user info edit post |
You can be in a committed relationship without being strict monogamists but it's not for everyone. Every relationship has different boundaries. 12/13/2011 8:09:36 PM
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Skwinkle burritotomyface 19447 Posts user info edit post |
I'm pretty sure the situation in the OP would never happen to me because I don't think I'd be dating a bisexual (I tried to phrase that not sounding prejudiced against bisexuals, but I think I failed.) But that fact aside, D. IMO, it's only cheating if you act without your partner's knowledge and permission.
[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 8:16 PM. Reason : that is, depending on who it is. My SO could have awful taste for all I know.] 12/13/2011 8:16:02 PM
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spöokyjon ℵ 18617 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I tried to phrase that not sounding prejudiced against bisexuals, but I think I failed." |
It's because you are.
But seriously, I think the percentage of people who try this and keep their relationship going is pretty small, for whatever that's worth. 12/13/2011 8:25:43 PM
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Metricula Squishie Enthusiast 4040 Posts user info edit post |
^There's nothing wrong with dating according to your preferred orientation! 12/13/2011 8:25:53 PM
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Skwinkle burritotomyface 19447 Posts user info edit post |
I truly have nothing against bisexuals. It's kind of like I used to be a vegetarian, but even then I couldn't see myself ever dating a vegetarian. Granted, these completely hypothetical statements are based on the bisexuals and vegetarians I have known, and the types of guys I enjoy dating. They aren't necessarily mutually exclusive, but I have seen no common threads. 12/13/2011 8:33:30 PM
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Samwise16 All American 12710 Posts user info edit post |
E
Because if my current SO said anything like this, he would either be joking or have a concussion or something, and it would turn srs 12/13/2011 8:35:11 PM
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CEmann All American 1913 Posts user info edit post |
id be all C until it became go time then I would switch to A with a side of  12/13/2011 9:12:42 PM
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Str8BacardiL ************ 41759 Posts user info edit post |
I think less males are concerned with their woman messing around with another woman than a female would be about her man messing around with another d00d
One scenario is attractive the other is  12/13/2011 10:03:34 PM
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arcgreek All American 26690 Posts user info edit post |
so God, does tww know the dude you want to bang? 12/13/2011 10:30:38 PM
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Netstorm All American 7547 Posts user info edit post |
My first thought? Awwwww yeah let's do this!
Every immediate and more coherent thought after that: No no no no no no. 12/13/2011 10:33:07 PM
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Str8BacardiL ************ 41759 Posts user info edit post |
This is one of those things you do not want to analyze to death beforehand.
Like rewrite the scenerio.
Significant other and you...or hell the three of you have a great time out drinking, end up in the same place, all fucking wasted, throw a hot tub in the picture....go there and post game. At this point you are all having a good time together, one thing leads to another.
Worst case you feel like WTF the next day when you replay and ask your SO for it never to happen again. (whatever)
Best case you look like this.

[Edited on December 13, 2011 at 10:48 PM. Reason : .] 12/13/2011 10:47:59 PM
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GingaNinja All American 7177 Posts user info edit post |
Shoot an arrow in your GF/BF's knee  12/13/2011 10:48:59 PM
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