BlackJesus Suspended 13089 Posts user info edit post |
http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/man-fathered-30-kids-needs-break-child-support-140439765.html
Quote : | "$1.49 child support" |
Quote : | "Desmond Hatchett, 33, of Knoxville has children with 11 different women, reports WREG-TV." |
Somebody go cut this dudes dick off. 5/18/2012 8:07:50 PM
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ComputerGuy (IN)Sensitive 5052 Posts user info edit post |
that dude knows how to find the fertile ladies. 5/18/2012 8:08:56 PM
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jaZon All American 27048 Posts user info edit post |
Dude does not look 33 in that picture. Is that the secret to staying young? 5/18/2012 8:20:17 PM
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ctnz71 All American 7207 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "The state cannot order Hatchett to stop making babies. He hasn't broken any laws, according to the report." |
so the only fair thing to do is make everyone else pay for them. 5/18/2012 8:20:49 PM
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Beethoven All American 4080 Posts user info edit post |
I liked this comment:
Quote : | "I've got an idea - How about he quits his 1 minimum wage job and babysits the 30 kids so the 11 moms can go out and earn 11 minimum wages? Then at the end of the day, he'd be too tired to make any new babies" |
5/18/2012 8:22:48 PM
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jaZon All American 27048 Posts user info edit post |
^ hahaha 5/18/2012 8:24:23 PM
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mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
Honestly, this story is all about the apparent stupidity of some of the women out there. 5/18/2012 8:39:03 PM
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simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
i think there's enough blame to go around, but i agree; who has multiple kids w/ a man that works minimum wage and has literally dozens of kids already? 5/18/2012 8:45:06 PM
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Hiro All American 4673 Posts user info edit post |
I know a guy IRL who fathered 4 babies with 2 different women. I think he's 21 now. Had two babies at the same time when he was 18. When he was 19, same thing; it was like deja vu. 
[Edited on May 18, 2012 at 9:05 PM. Reason : .] 5/18/2012 9:04:50 PM
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GeniuSxBoY Suspended 16786 Posts user info edit post |
Again, the women are never blamed 5/18/2012 9:06:23 PM
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Klatypus All American 6786 Posts user info edit post |
^they have to rear the children he has essentially disowned, so they are already paying for the children's expenses.
I absolutely blame the women just as much as him. Also they have to look at the ugly babies he fathered, that is punishment enough.  5/18/2012 9:10:36 PM
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Beethoven All American 4080 Posts user info edit post |
And none of those women had 30 kids and is stiffing on child support... 5/18/2012 9:12:01 PM
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Hiro All American 4673 Posts user info edit post |
^^ That was a bit mean calling the kids ugly.
Quote : | "don't let them say you ain't beautiful " |
-Eminem 5/18/2012 9:19:29 PM
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GeniuSxBoY Suspended 16786 Posts user info edit post |
They had unprotected sex AND they knew he was the father of numerous babies, too. They chose to keep the babies, they should suffer the consequences. 5/18/2012 9:29:14 PM
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GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
so on average, the mothers have 3 of his kids apiece 5/18/2012 10:16:44 PM
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mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "^they have to rear the children he has essentially disowned, so they are already paying for the children's expenses.
I absolutely blame the women just as much as him. Also they have to look at the ugly babies he fathered, that is punishment enough. " |
It's actually kind of defensible that he was more responsible than the women. He seems to have never argued for joint custody of any of these children... perhaps recognizing that he's not responsible enough, doesn't have enough resources, and would generally suck as a parent. All facts I don't anticipate anyone disagreeing with.
Had any or all of the women taken the same position, the children could have been put up for adoption or found themselves in a foster home.
Just b/c something pops out of your vagina doesn't make it obvious that you should assume responsibility of it. Men don't have this problem because things don't pop out of their vagina. 5/18/2012 10:33:03 PM
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Demathis1 All American 4364 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "And none of those women had 30 kids and is stiffing on child support..." |
Only because it is biologically impossible for them to do so in such a short period of time.
If humans could have litters, I'm sure they would be cranking them out left and right just the same.
Sadly, I've known several women who have had 4 and 5 kids from 4 and 5 different men.
although you are definitely right in the fact they end up taking care of them.d
[Edited on May 18, 2012 at 10:41 PM. Reason : d] 5/18/2012 10:38:44 PM
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aph319 All American 8570 Posts user info edit post |
This is a cold, harsh reminder to all women that they should only have sex with wealthy men. 5/18/2012 10:55:51 PM
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Klatypus All American 6786 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "It's actually kind of defensible that he was more responsible than the women. He seems to have never argued for joint custody of any of these children... perhaps recognizing that he's not responsible enough, doesn't have enough resources, and would generally suck as a parent. All facts I don't anticipate anyone disagreeing with." |
has he publicly renounced his paternity? because they have his DNA. He can make a case that they are unfit parents and then the 30 kids can be placed in new homes and everything will be better.
yep, nothing wrong there. 5/18/2012 11:00:05 PM
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mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "This is a cold, harsh reminder to all women that they should only have sex with wealthy men." |
Or be wealthy themselves. It just so happens that we don't hear that story often, since wealthy women seem to either not have a problem finding a partner that meets their needs, or they don't have children, or they don't make reality TV shows about their life.
The alternative is that a woman and a man who are both dirt poor make a baby. It shouldn't take a rocket scientist to think through that scenario. 5/18/2012 11:15:26 PM
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State Oz All American 1897 Posts user info edit post |
I have mixed feelings on a lot of pregnancy and child support issues.
It is the woman's responsibility to not get pregnant. She can prevent herself from getting pregnant if she wants to. If she doesn't, then she is lazy or irresponsible. Aside from rape, there is really no excuse 99% of the time, with the 1% being the failed birth control. Even with rape, I still think that adult women should be on birth control, regardless of whether they are sexually active. It prepares them for the uncontrollable situation of rape. It also removes the awkwardness of "Hey, I'm gonna let you hit this. We just have to wait a week or two for me to see my doctor and a get a prescription for birth control, and then like 30 more days for it to start protecting me. In the meantime, you can continue jerking off."
With that said, I'm not surprised that a lot of low-income (read: poor) women get pregnant. The lure of sex is so strong that it's hard to resist letting a man unload his spunk inside the stinky hole. Condoms are free, but again, this places the responsibility on the person who cannot get pregnant. Birth control should be free. While some of you will argue that you buy your own because you're responsible, and I feel super happy for you, it will ultimately be less expensive for taxpayers to prevent pregnancy than to support indigent children. I've heard you can get the pills for free. Why can't they provide the shot for free? How many women have gotten pregnant because they forgot to take a pill? It would just be so much easier if women could get the shot for free.
If pregnancy does occur, a man should accept 50% of the responsibility for the child. In my experience, most women think that getting pregnant means that the man should "support" her AND the child. And by support I mean pay for everything. This includes buying the mother new clothes, taking her out on dates, paying her rent, etc. This is fucked up logic.
Having a child after someone impregnates you does not equate to you doing a great service or favor to the father. Unless it's planned you've done more harm than good for his life. I'm sure you've all seen posts on Facebook where some women justifies her demands for new clothes or rent money because she had some guy's kid. This is fucked up logic.
The other side of this coin is that fathers get a bad rap most of the time and the majority of mothers are unfairly characterized by a few gold-digging chickenheads. The guy who has 30 kids is simply having unprotected sex without thinking of the consequences and then refusing to even attempt to provide for each child. I think it's great that he has a job, even if it is minimum wage. If he had two, I'd say he's actually trying. There are plenty of fathers who only have one child and work two low-paying jobs to help the child get ahead in life.
There are also plenty of mothers who take it upon themselves to work and provide for their child when the father is a piece of shit and won't assist with the financial responsibility that their child is morally owed. We celebrate the octomom like a circus sideshow, and condemn the mother with the 3rd shift job, who is a week late on her rent because her kid got sick and needed medicine, by calling her irresponsible. This is fucked up logic.
Having one child is not the end of the world. Women who have four kids and can't make ends meet usually don't just magically end up that way. There are exceptions, but it's likely that they couldn't afford the first one and struggled after it was born. This process repeated itself with the second, third, and fourth child. Instead of stopping after one, they either ignored the increased financial burden that loomed in their ovaries and welcomed the spray of some hot spunk, or are simply so dumb that they don't realize how they are made. One child should not ruin anyone's life. One person and one child can survive, not thrive, on 40 hours of minimum wage.
[Edited on May 19, 2012 at 2:21 AM. Reason : maybe deheading the dick or burning the clit with an iron would stop all this tomfoolery] 5/19/2012 2:17:22 AM
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A Tanzarian drip drip boom 10996 Posts user info edit post |
Free birth control is a violation of my religious rights. Please stop trying to force your liberal agenda down my throat. 5/19/2012 2:41:44 AM
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paerabol All American 17118 Posts user info edit post |
^^ reading that was probably the biggest waste of brain resource I've allowed today, and I played Skyrim for hours
I feel dumber now and, somehow, dirtier. Please stop. You are now the thane of Trollvale and this questline has ended. 5/19/2012 3:13:29 AM
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0EPII1 All American 42567 Posts user info edit post |
the women who have kids with him must be the stupidest women in the world.
and he should be castrated.
what an animal... seems like he just evolved from a chimp into a human and crawled out of the jungles of Africa  5/19/2012 9:04:43 AM
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ComputerGuy (IN)Sensitive 5052 Posts user info edit post |
^
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Str8BacardiL ************ 41759 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "THANE
OF
TROLLVALE" |
5/19/2012 9:10:31 AM
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Beethoven All American 4080 Posts user info edit post |
I don't doubt the women are idiots, and should share in part of the blame, but the guy is clearly the common denominator here, and should be the one held predominantly responsible.
Why people like this can breed, but other educated, loving families have a hard time conceiving, I will never understand. 5/19/2012 9:15:12 AM
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justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 28517 Posts user info edit post |
Everyone involved in this story should be sterilized. 5/19/2012 9:20:24 AM
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ctnz71 All American 7207 Posts user info edit post |
sterilize this man. its not like we are taking away his right to have sex if we do so. he is treating sex as a sport and his trophy currently is a child.
it will be a lot cheaper to do this than me having to foot the bill for more of his kids. 5/19/2012 9:25:56 AM
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0EPII1 All American 42567 Posts user info edit post |
^5 i would have said the same were he white or any other color... you know, as they say, human started in africa. so i was just referring to that. seems like he just now turned from a chimp into a human.
Quote : | "Everyone involved in this story should be sterilized." |
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wolfpackgrrr All American 39759 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Why people like this can breed, but other educated, loving families have a hard time conceiving, I will never understand. " |
That's what pisses me off most. 5/19/2012 9:46:52 AM
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mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Even with rape, I still think that adult women should be on birth control, regardless of whether they are sexually active." |
Stopped reading there. 5/19/2012 10:01:01 AM
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begonias warning: not serious 19581 Posts user info edit post |

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justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 28517 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "sterilize this man. " |
it takes 2 people to have a kid. don't single just the man out. 5/19/2012 12:46:38 PM
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Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
Just like TWW to turn this around and blame all the women. 5/19/2012 12:49:47 PM
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justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 28517 Posts user info edit post |
they all share the blame. 5/19/2012 12:51:00 PM
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0EPII1 All American 42567 Posts user info edit post |
^^ i see users blaming both sides... need glasses? 5/19/2012 1:01:17 PM
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Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |
NO
I WAS NOT COMMENTING ON EVERY SINGLE POSTER IN THIS THREAD
NEED A BRAIN? 5/19/2012 2:12:51 PM
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0EPII1 All American 42567 Posts user info edit post |
hey, you generalized ("TWW"). it is not the case that everybody itt blamed women only. it is not even the case that the majority itt blamed women only (in which case your generalization would have been correct). 5/19/2012 2:16:23 PM
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Meg All American 6759 Posts user info edit post |

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0EPII1 All American 42567 Posts user info edit post |

5/19/2012 2:28:51 PM
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Fareako Shitter Pilot 10238 Posts user info edit post |
 Desmond Hatchett at his Knoxville residence.
5/19/2012 4:09:40 PM
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NeuseRvrRat hello Mr. NSA! 35386 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | " who has multiple kids w/ a man that works minimum wage and has literally dozens of kids already?" |
the kind of woman who gets more money for each kid she squirts out 5/19/2012 4:50:29 PM
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ctnz71 All American 7207 Posts user info edit post |
^ 5/19/2012 11:05:51 PM
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roddy All American 25834 Posts user info edit post |
Started at 19, so give him another 10 years he should be at 50+ kids.
[Edited on May 19, 2012 at 11:24 PM. Reason : w] 5/19/2012 11:24:28 PM
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BlackJesus Suspended 13089 Posts user info edit post |
I wonder how big would his income tax be if he could file all his kids? 
[Edited on May 19, 2012 at 11:52 PM. Reason : brain fade] 5/19/2012 11:52:20 PM
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lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
^^^^and I guess doesn't realize that the actual costs of taking care of each new kid will more than swamp the expected support and welfare payments 5/19/2012 11:58:37 PM
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punchmonk Double Entendre 22300 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Somebody go cut this dudes dick off." |
that made me laugh.
Quote : | "The state cannot order Hatchett to stop making babies. He hasn't broken any laws, according to the report." |
hahaha...they had to report that. Nice. 5/20/2012 12:03:07 AM
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moron All American 34477 Posts user info edit post |
Seems like this could be some psychological disorder that he should be committed for. 5/20/2012 12:08:25 AM
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mrfrog ☯ 15145 Posts user info edit post |
^ what? He's been doing what evolution put him here to do. Probably better than everyone who's posted in this thread all combined.
If you create a social or economic system where people can have huge numbers of babies, it's completely irrational to blame them for doing so. The more people like this guy we have, the faster we'll be motivated to fix the system. So he's a hero. 5/20/2012 1:14:35 AM
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