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dtownral
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There are people ~30 years old going on multiple dates (which I assume to mean a few or more) without sleeping together? Why?

5/20/2014 9:39:52 AM

grimx
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the herp

5/20/2014 9:40:47 AM

adultswim
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"Of course they all pay"


wait i missed this post. you're dating 3 different dudes and having them all pay for you?

that's mega shitty hahaha

but you're not sleeping with them because that would be dishonest. oh man.

[Edited on May 20, 2014 at 9:47 AM. Reason : .]

5/20/2014 9:43:15 AM

EMCE
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fact: within 3 dates, I would have already slid up in sawahash's butthole

5/20/2014 9:48:29 AM

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"and I think it would be really awkward to have them all together..."


what? no! why?

5/20/2014 9:53:12 AM

grimx
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set up a cagematch and let the 3 of them fight for supremacy to tear it up

5/20/2014 9:58:36 AM

Bullet
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"wait i missed this post. you're dating 3 different dudes and having them all pay for you?"


yeah, that ain't cool. especially since your response is "of course they all pay", like they're obligated to. Even if you're only dating one guy, you should offer to pay occasionally. He may or may not accept, but you should offer.

5/20/2014 10:07:59 AM

NCSUam0s
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I always felt awkward not paying once in awhile, especially when I made more money than many of the guys I dated.

5/20/2014 10:10:12 AM

EMCE
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I love and respect sawahash, as she's been a good friend of mine for years. But by three dates, you better believe I could at least get her to spit on my dick.

5/20/2014 10:10:53 AM

grimx
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might not want to if she's spittin on 2 other dicks also...

5/20/2014 10:11:42 AM

AndyMac
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This was mentioned on the previous page, but if you would be uncomfortable if one of them brought a date, then you can bet they would be uncomfortable with this situation.

5/20/2014 10:22:45 AM

grimx
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that'd be pretty awesome if all 3 brought a date

5/20/2014 10:27:15 AM

jackleg
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grow up and pick one already. you're wasting their time and their money, and it's not gonna end well for you when they finally figure this out.

if you were putting out, i'd blame them for wasting all that cash, and call you a skanker. im this case, i'm gonna blame you for everything, and still call you a skanker.

5/20/2014 11:19:27 AM

dyne
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This is an interesting thread with a lot of well constructed arguments, and it's definitely a subject I think about often. Obviously, the answer to this question is highly subjective, and I don't believe there is a single right answer. I like reading everyone's opinion on the matter, though, and I hope this discussion goes on.

5/20/2014 11:42:48 AM

jbrick83
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Triple BJ...sees who's dick is the best.

5/20/2014 11:44:35 AM

BridgetSPK
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Actually, it's not my business. Just do that^.


[Edited on May 20, 2014 at 1:28 PM. Reason : ]

5/20/2014 1:01:30 PM

moron
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Make sure to prepare a wet and a dry towel.

5/20/2014 1:32:53 PM

Bill Bixby
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You don't, under any circumstances, invite all of them out at the same time.

You tell each of them that you have family plans, or friends plans, and that if they WANT to do something with you for your birthday that they can have whatever other night that week/weekend and you can literally have a birthday dinner with each one of them separately at separate locations. What they don't know wont hurt them, and you are continuing to date them to see if they impress you in some form or fashion -especially around your birthday. You have to think they will want to take you to dinner and have a drink or two to celebrate.

5/20/2014 6:39:55 PM

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"I just can't decide who I would rather come."

ISWYDT

5/21/2014 12:43:58 AM

0EPII1
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tell them you don't do birthdays at all, you don't believe in celebrating them, because it is all commercial, and childish anyway to celebrate one day of your life which in the grand scheme means nothing. say if you are going to become exclusive, you never want your birthdays celebrated, and although you will [reluctantly] attend their birthdays if they want to celebrate them, their birthdays mean nothing to you.

see who sticks around... choose him. and then tell him you were joking, and bring him to your party.

5/21/2014 7:14:51 AM

FroshKiller
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CUT THE BABY IN HALF

5/21/2014 8:03:04 AM

Sweden
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"you got three holes. problem solved."

5/21/2014 8:04:34 AM

synapse
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Fuck why invite any of them to the birthday festivities?

Maybe you can find a 4th or 5th dude to add to the non-sexual harem.

5/21/2014 10:18:04 AM

HUR
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"yeah, that ain't cool. especially since your response is "of course they all pay", like they're obligated to. "


I hate bitches like this. I have a good job, am not cheap, and typically pay for dates at least early on since it is a social norm (especially in the south) but I have a problem with girls that think its an entitlement. I gave one of my female friends a verbal lashing when she told me she goes on Tinder dates just to get free dinner.

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"Even if you're only dating one guy, you should offer to pay occasionally."


I knew things weren't going to work out with this one girl i was dating over the winter when she didn't even offer to pay for my birthday dinner

[Edited on May 21, 2014 at 12:33 PM. Reason : a]

5/21/2014 12:33:04 PM

slappy1
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I still can't tell if the OP is serious, but assuming she is -

what the fuck? do you really think you're that much of a prize that you deserve to put these guys through a real-life Elimidate situation, and just springing it on them when they arrive at your party? the fact that you would even CONSIDER doing this, and assuming for even one second that any of these guys would be okay with it, makes it pretty clear that you are an out-of-touch slag with an artificially inflated sense of self.


p.s. I don't believe that you're not sleeping with at least one of them, but that's really neither here nor there.

5/21/2014 1:07:49 PM

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Yeah she lost me with the idea of inviting all 3. Who the fuck would do that???

[Edited on May 21, 2014 at 1:17 PM. Reason : the entitlement thing is kinda fucked up too]

5/21/2014 1:15:08 PM

slappy1
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I'm just not sure how, at no point, did she say "hm, I wonder how I would feel if I showed up to the birthday party of a guy I've been seeing (and presumably have feelings for, if I've been repeatedly going on dates and paying for them), only to find out he invited two other chicks who he has also been seeing, sleeping with, developing feelings for, etc."

you know damn well you would be insulted, pissed, and more than anything, hurt.

this has to be a joke. or a weird attempt at a #humblebrag

5/21/2014 3:10:23 PM

David0603
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"a weird attempt at a #humblebrag"

5/21/2014 5:47:30 PM

dropdeadkate
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Does anyone honestly think there is even a remote chance any of those dudes are worth bragging about

5/21/2014 6:07:19 PM

puck_it
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Its the internet, and there hasn't been pics. So no.

5/21/2014 6:08:27 PM

sawahash
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Ok, let me clarify some things...

I am not every night going out with a different guy. When they invite me out I go out with them. Sometimes it's to dinner. Sometimes it's out to the bar on the weekend. Sometimes it's to go fishing or to sit on the beach or go out on the boat.

They pay, I have offered to pay for my share. When we go to the bar, I pretty much buy most of my drinks.

My mom said I'm doing it right because she has seen how I have started dating someone and we have gotten too serious too fast. My parents have been married for 30 years.

They are all in their late 20s to early 30s. They are all very nice guys with which I enjoy spending time. It's been very casual dating. I haven't gotten close enough to any of them to want to sleep with them yet.

I'm not trying to use them or get free shit out of them. I'm just trying to have fun and date around.

I'm thinking what I will tell them is that I'm just going to have a low key birthday, because who goes all out for their 27th birthday anyway, and just hangout with my family and girlfriends.

I'm not really sure if I want to move on to the next stage in a relationship anyway for now.

5/21/2014 7:23:57 PM

BridgetSPK
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But what happened to the guy from March 8 with whom you had "some good, goddamn sex"?

You should get with that guy. And post about it. With details and whatnot.

[Edited on May 21, 2014 at 7:51 PM. Reason : ]

5/21/2014 7:51:21 PM

sawahash
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That guy turned out to be some jackbag....

5/21/2014 7:59:33 PM

BridgetSPK
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Jackbags need to get way better at hiding that they're jackbags.

5/21/2014 8:02:22 PM

Hiro
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If I had a kitkat bar, I'd give sweet sawahash a break.

YOLO!

5/21/2014 8:03:42 PM

0EPII1
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So on March 8 was a different guy that you are not seeing any more? When did that end?

Between March 8 and May 19, a period of 10 weeks, you dropped one guy and picked up 3? For all we know, that 10 weeks might be 1 day (picked up 3 the day after you dropped 1).

You are a pro.

5/21/2014 8:14:29 PM

seedless
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So basically we have a whore posting here about her whore adventures and everyone seems interested?

Interesting.

5/21/2014 8:19:28 PM

sawahash
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How am I a whore if I'm not sleeping with any of the guys I'm dating?

5/21/2014 8:21:53 PM

slaptit
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Vagina is not a clown car?

5/21/2014 8:22:02 PM

seedless
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Do they know each other?

5/21/2014 8:36:02 PM

EMCE
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Happy early birthday, sawawash!

5/21/2014 8:38:39 PM

dmspack
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^hahaha

5/21/2014 8:45:27 PM

Kickstand
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"I haven't gotten close enough to any of them to want to sleep with them yet."

Whhhat??? Where is your libido? Surely you've tried to mentally guess their dick sizes.

5/21/2014 9:00:53 PM

dtownral
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"Between March 8 and May 19, a period of 10 weeks, you dropped one guy and picked up 3?"


how the fuck slow is dating in your shitty country? 10 weeks is a long damn time.

5/21/2014 9:03:43 PM

BridgetSPK
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Yeah, sawahash, you're a total whore and an icy bitch with no libido who's taking advantage of men for free side salads.

5/21/2014 9:09:09 PM

sawahash
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^I knew I always liked you!

5/21/2014 9:22:44 PM

EMCE
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5/21/2014 9:47:57 PM

sawahash
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^ I'm still waiting for you to show up on my front porch

5/21/2014 9:53:49 PM

dyne
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"nice guys"


ok so im guessing none of them have made a move on you yet then?

5/21/2014 10:02:14 PM

EMCE
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omg

5/21/2014 10:20:45 PM

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