Not counting your own or family members. I've been in 4 already and am going to be in one in October and another next June. The bachelor's parties have all been fun, but the weddings are just ehh. I realize it's more for the bride and groom and their parents, but out of the 4, only one has been really fun (at least the reception).

8/17/2005 7:05:01 PM

been a bridesmaid twice. third time will be in may.


three times a bridesmaid...

8/17/2005 7:11:15 PM

best man last august

8/17/2005 7:18:30 PM

been a groomsmen twice

another one in 07

and whatever comes up between now and then

8/17/2005 7:32:12 PM

Best Man: 1

only been in that one, but I've been invited to over a dozen at this point

8/17/2005 7:51:16 PM

been invited to be in 4

but i don't weddings or funerals

i don't like watching my friends give up their lives

8/17/2005 8:06:43 PM

i've been in 3...in another in june

8/17/2005 8:09:40 PM

I've played in many, but been in 6 as a friend. My wallet hurts.

[Edited on August 17, 2005 at 9:36 PM. Reason : Zzz]

8/17/2005 9:36:11 PM

Countless

8/17/2005 9:59:13 PM

been to 2

8/17/2005 10:13:17 PM

2 for family, 0 for non.

8/17/2005 11:09:23 PM

i was a groomsman 2 weeks ago for a friend 93formula

the other 2 were family

[Edited on August 17, 2005 at 11:40 PM. Reason : yep]

8/17/2005 11:40:05 PM

been in 2 so far

I'm just glad I wasn't in a fraternity. I have friends who have to go to weddings all the damn time. It gets expensive.

8/18/2005 12:07:41 AM

that's the only one i've played any role in (right front in the sword arch). i get invited to about one per month, it seems like, but i can't make most of them.

8/18/2005 1:21:23 AM

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"i was a groomsman 2 weeks ago for a friend 93formula the other 2 were family "

i think that cat was my chem 2 lab partner

8/18/2005 2:07:09 AM

mine, 2 others ive been to,

groomsmen in one dec3 and groomsmen again on may 30 2006

8/18/2005 7:15:14 AM

I've been in two. Was supposed to have been in a third, but apparently the girl didn't understand the concept of giving up other sources of cock.

8/18/2005 8:44:39 AM

5 within the last year and a half.... my wallet hurts too

8/18/2005 8:51:37 AM

I've been in one, and gonna be in another one in 4 weeks.

8/18/2005 8:52:36 AM

i have to be in any
but i have been to alot

lots of college buddies are getting hitched

8/18/2005 9:12:43 AM

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"i get invited to about one per month"

i know what you mean. i have gotten where i keep a few standard wedding gifts (crystal vases, pic frames, etc) around the house.

i have been in 2, one of which was my own wedding. i have been to countless....

8/18/2005 9:44:30 AM

I was best man for a wedding in 1997, when i was fucking 19. Big surprise, that he's already divorced.

I was a groomsman in another in '02, and a groomsman for one in a few weeks.

8/18/2005 9:51:10 AM

4... Both my sisters' weddings, then two of my buddies from college...

8/18/2005 9:56:06 AM

been in 0

8/18/2005 10:10:28 AM

Oddly enough, the only wedding I've been in besides my own was my dad's (when he married my step-mom) at the ripe age of 13. In the past year I have attended 2 other weddings but not been in them.

8/18/2005 12:57:13 PM

6 ... it's got to be my turn soon! I'm sick of paying $200 for an ugly dress that gets worn for a few hours and then joins the others in the back of my closet. I'm going to pay all my attendants' expenses so no one ever says that about me.

8/18/2005 3:26:07 PM

one so far, was the best man at my friend Tim's wedding.

8/18/2005 3:28:50 PM

I have been in none
I have attended many and will attend many more this year

8/18/2005 3:34:50 PM

I've been in three. I was the best man for two.

8/18/2005 4:14:19 PM

for those of you who are best men/ groomsmen... do you feel obligated from there to have those guys in your wedding? I mean, if i got married tomorrow, i'd have to have like 7 groomsmen, not including my brother as best men. i think i'll probably go with 3 groomsmen, and 4 or 5 ushers. we'll see. i just want all my boys there, and it's gonna be tough to do without stepping on any toes.

8/18/2005 4:40:26 PM

I know what you mean. There are a lot of people I should have in mine, and who to ask to be best man will be particularly tough.

I think it will depend on part on how many bridemaids the other side will have, since you know women run the damned thing anyways.

8/18/2005 4:43:49 PM

man of honor.

best. bridesman. ever.

8/18/2005 4:44:35 PM

^^^i've thought about that too. it really is gonna depend on what my bride wants more than anything. i know who would be in my wedding party if it were 2, 3, 4, 5, or 6 people. i don't think it would be stepping on any of their toes. i'm good friends with all of them, but i'm better friends with a couple of them than the others. i would like to have all of them in my wedding if possible though (at least being ushers).

8/18/2005 5:12:28 PM

ill be in my 6th in october...nukkas making me broke ass

8/18/2005 5:32:57 PM

and to follow up to yall fucks who have friends as best men...why do you feel the need to disrespect your fathers like that? (i apologize in advance to those who have lost their fathers)

8/18/2005 5:34:49 PM

4 including one bestman

8/18/2005 8:58:44 PM

2 of non-family members.

One of them I had to drive an hour to Charlotte to track down the limo driver to retrieve my tux.

8/18/2005 9:17:52 PM

I don't know

But at least 1 song by Atlantic Starr was plaid in all of them.. or the shit afterwards

8/18/2005 9:20:52 PM

4

I was Maid of Honor in 2
Guest and pseudo-bridesmaid in 1
Flower girl in 1

[Edited on August 18, 2005 at 10:49 PM. Reason : forgot one]

8/18/2005 10:46:31 PM

Just once in the wedding party. Maid of honor this past Saturday.

I have on numerous occassions been "that friend" to save the day by driving up bridesmaids dresses that were taken in for last minute alterations and only made ready after the wedding party left for the rehearsal, or doing some other crazy thing day of.

8/19/2005 12:29:20 AM

For friends? One. As a swordsman, I can't count. We used to toss on our dress unis in the spring to help out at the weddings at the Naval Academy chapel. Takes about 16-20 swordsmen to fill the steps.

I won't have my dad as the best man - that'll go to my brother.

[Edited on August 19, 2005 at 12:56 AM. Reason : .]

8/19/2005 12:52:38 AM

Been in one, groomsman, this past may. It was a good time, I definitely had fun.

8/19/2005 12:55:59 AM

you know what looks stupider than bridesmaid dresses? marine uniforms.

8/19/2005 1:38:28 AM

I know plenty of idiots throwing their lives away early.

GG on ruining some future kid's childhood. I'm sure their kids are going to have fun journeying between mommy and daddy's house all the time.

8/19/2005 1:50:10 AM

I was a ring bearer when I was a little kid. And in 2003 I was a groomsman, and in 2006 I will be a best man.

8/19/2005 1:58:50 AM

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"I know plenty of idiots throwing their lives away early."

i totally 100% know what ya mean man.

i dunno why they're gettin married at 22, 23... it's so young. and maybe they are in love, who am i to say, hell, i dont know what love is. but still, it just seems like if they truly love each other, they can wait at least until their late 20s

but best of luck to 'em anyway

8/19/2005 2:45:55 AM

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"I don't know But at least 1 song by Atlantic Starr was plaid in all of them.. or the shit afterwards"

ahahahahahahahhahaha

8/19/2005 4:47:54 AM

i've been a flower girl twice, once when i was 6, once when i was 21

i've lost count the number of weddings i've been to but a rough estimate is probably 10 in the last 3 years that i've at least been invited to that i've sent a present even if I did not attend.

8/19/2005 7:46:51 AM

1 so far, my dad and stepmom in '94. 2nd will be next June

8/19/2005 8:23:34 AM

3 as of tomorrow! (and not counting my own )

8/19/2005 9:56:02 AM