dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
She said no
Just kidding 11/13/2010 4:24:20 PM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
wait, she said yes?
or you didn't propose? 11/13/2010 4:25:23 PM |
punchmonk Double Entendre 22300 Posts user info edit post |
CONGRATS!!!
Um...none of my business but you aren't 18 are you? 11/13/2010 4:25:40 PM |
dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
Haha no she said yes.
^ Oh man I haven't updated that ever. I'm 23.
[Edited on November 13, 2010 at 4:26 PM. Reason : a] 11/13/2010 4:25:46 PM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
lol. i was kidding and just being a troll
congrats dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 11/13/2010 4:26:26 PM |
BigEgo Not suspended 24374 Posts user info edit post |
CONGRATS ZAGS.
SHE BETTER NOT HURT YOUR PROMISING DOTA CAREER 11/13/2010 4:27:49 PM |
qntmfred retired 40598 Posts user info edit post |
-daps- 11/13/2010 4:29:33 PM |
dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
^^ Haha I'm sure she won't. 11/13/2010 4:30:21 PM |
BoondockSt All American 2354 Posts user info edit post |
woooooo congrats! 11/13/2010 4:30:24 PM |
dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
Okay now we gotta go hang out with my parents and I have to tell them. They dont even know I was gonna do it... should be fun 11/13/2010 4:31:34 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Oh man I haven't updated that ever. I'm 23." |
Still too young. You have time to back out. Check out the thread in the Lounge for evidence.11/13/2010 4:34:59 PM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
^thats debatable.
i know a few people who wished they had gotten married earlier (most of it due to having kids at an older age and feeling like they couldn't keep up with them as much)
[Edited on November 13, 2010 at 4:42 PM. Reason : due DUE ] 11/13/2010 4:41:59 PM |
Stimwalt All American 15292 Posts user info edit post |
grats dude, I hope this doesn't affect our gaming, lol. 11/13/2010 4:45:11 PM |
KE4ZNR All American 2695 Posts user info edit post |
Congrats! Hope ya have many years of happiness 11/13/2010 4:46:59 PM |
d7freestyler Sup, Brahms 23935 Posts user info edit post |
congrats! 11/13/2010 4:48:02 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "(most of it due to having kids at an older age and feeling like they couldn't keep up with them as much)" |
Those people sound retarded. Stay in shape and you don't have to worry about that.11/13/2010 4:48:17 PM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
sorry to semi derail the thread!
CONGRATS TO DZAGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 11/13/2010 5:00:08 PM |
raiden All American 10504 Posts user info edit post |
congrats and I hope you don't end up like my situation. Refer to message_topic.aspx?topic=604657 11/13/2010 5:00:35 PM |
OopsPowSrprs All American 8383 Posts user info edit post |
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fleetwud AmbitiousButRubbish 49741 Posts user info edit post |
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EdFurlong All American 677 Posts user info edit post |
HOORAY!! OMG OMG OMG congratulations 11/13/2010 5:13:30 PM |
Supplanter supple anteater 21831 Posts user info edit post |
COngratz! 11/13/2010 5:14:04 PM |
Mr. Joshua Swimfanfan 43948 Posts user info edit post |
OMG TWW ENGAGEMENT PARTY!!!! 11/13/2010 5:25:46 PM |
Spontaneous All American 27372 Posts user info edit post |
Congratulations! 11/13/2010 5:31:41 PM |
wdprice3 BinaryBuffonary 45912 Posts user info edit post |
I'm sorry for your loss. 11/13/2010 5:43:37 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
wow, what a downer.11/13/2010 7:09:54 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
Have fun never getting another blow job again
Jk congrats
But seriously 11/13/2010 7:40:13 PM |
Chop All American 6271 Posts user info edit post |
congrats and best wishes! 11/13/2010 7:43:33 PM |
JBaz All American 16764 Posts user info edit post |
better get as much sex as you can now, it will exponentially decrease over time. 11/13/2010 8:31:27 PM |
zorthage 1+1=5 17148 Posts user info edit post |
congrats dude! 11/13/2010 10:20:33 PM |
aaronburro Sup, B 52901 Posts user info edit post |
^ 14.5k! 11/13/2010 10:50:07 PM |
NyM410 J-E-T-S 50084 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Still too young. You have time to back out. Check out the thread in the Lounge for evidence." |
Come on... that is a shitty thing to say. Every situation is different and to come out of left field and say something like that is ridiculous. My Mom got married to my Dad at 23 and had two kids by 28 and she is happily married for 34 years now and living a good life.11/13/2010 10:53:16 PM |
egyeyes All American 6209 Posts user info edit post |
Congrats!! 11/13/2010 10:59:48 PM |
G.O.D hates 4 lokos 4694 Posts user info edit post |
congrats! 11/14/2010 12:35:40 AM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Come on... that is a shitty thing to say. Every situation is different and to come out of left field and say something like that is ridiculous. My Mom got married to my Dad at 23 and had two kids by 28 and she is happily married for 34 years now and living a good life." |
This isn't the Lounge, so I'm not trying to give advice here.
Besides, as a general rule, I do think 23 is too young. But every situation is different. I'm sure these guys will be celebrating landmark anniversaries for years to come. They've got at least a 50% chance.11/14/2010 2:39:09 AM |
merbig Suspended 13178 Posts user info edit post |
^ Applying population wide statistics to individuals in circumstances that involve emotions and not risk is foolish. 11/14/2010 2:43:30 AM |
dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
I don't see anything wrong with the age. And we've been dating for 4 years and living together for almost 3, its really not going to be much of a lifestyle change minus the Quote : | "Have fun never getting another blow job again" | 11/14/2010 6:47:13 AM |
elkaybie All American 39626 Posts user info edit post |
Congrats!!! 11/14/2010 7:08:30 AM |
raiden All American 10504 Posts user info edit post |
forget my first post in this thread, that was tarded of me.
For serious, congrats and all the best. 11/14/2010 7:28:48 AM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Applying population wide statistics to individuals in circumstances that involve emotions and not risk is foolish." |
Is that a joke?? Because most of the marriages that ended in divorce didn't involved emotion...right??
Apologies for thread derail. My first post was meant to be half light-hearted. In general, I still don't think the average 23 year old is ready for marriage, but plenty still work out and I'm sure you'll be fine. Congrats and good luck!11/14/2010 9:44:26 AM |
EMCE balls deep 89740 Posts user info edit post |
congrats man! 11/14/2010 10:07:10 AM |
dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
No need for anyone to apologize, I've been here long enough to know it comes with the territory, its chitchat.
And Raiden, I've read through your thread from the start, I feel for you and I'm sorry your situation worked out how it did. In the end it all works out for the best though. 11/14/2010 10:40:30 AM |
LRlilDaddy All American 6511 Posts user info edit post |
why would you do that to yourself? 11/14/2010 10:44:10 AM |
Tarun almost 11687 Posts user info edit post |
Congrats! 11/14/2010 10:44:40 AM |
cdub1313 Starting Lineup 73 Posts user info edit post |
First of all, congrats. I hope it works out for you. But, I'm in my mid 30s and I would say 90% of my friends who got engaged/married before their late 20s are either divorced or on the verge of it. Twenty-three is way too young imo, and ten years from now, you'll probably agree with me. 11/14/2010 5:20:50 PM |
BoondockSt All American 2354 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "But, I'm in my mid 30s and I would say 90% of my friends who got engaged/married before their late 20s are either divorced or on the verge of it. Twenty-three is way too young imo, and ten years from now, you'll probably agree with me." |
Way to go, Debbie Downer
Fuck that guy, there are plenty of people my parents' age who got married way early (I'm talking 18-19) and have been together forever. It's all about your relationship and the things you do to make it work down the road.
There's no secret to a marriage that works, and age most certainly isn't some deal breaker. That said, I'm not engaged/married, and my ass was far too immature for that at 23...probably still so now at 25. 11/14/2010 5:23:54 PM |
khcadwal All American 35165 Posts user info edit post |
SHOW US THE RINGGGGG 11/14/2010 5:24:22 PM |
Wadhead1 Duke is puke 20897 Posts user info edit post |
congrats! 11/14/2010 7:27:11 PM |
dzags18 All American 5694 Posts user info edit post |
I'll try and get a picture of the ring up later. It was her grandmothers engagement ring, then her moms, now hers. I wanted to buy her a ring but it was what she wanted and I'm not getting between that .
And yeah, I will be getting married much younger then I expected but its by no means some random decision or anything, we have been dating and living together for a very long time and we've talked about it forever. The statistics can say whatever they want but unless they are saying its a 100% chance of failure its a chance I'll take. 11/14/2010 7:30:13 PM |
khcadwal All American 35165 Posts user info edit post |
awwww! congrats!!! is her mom still alive? just asking because i didn't know if it was normal or not to get your mother's engagement ring when your mother is still alive. that is so cool though (the family ring thing). i love family rings!
how old are you? how long have you dated? and you've already lived together for a long time? that is probably a good thing, IMO.
i know people are SUPER against it, but i'd rather live with someone before getting married to them. i guess i'm weird, but it just seems slightly more responsible (to me...i know people seriously disagree on this topic).
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