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11/8/2007 2:04:43 PM

Love is grand!

11/8/2007 2:07:28 PM

...and you're asking this question on a college message board?




anyway, yes. I'm going to marry this woman

11/8/2007 2:12:45 PM

there were times I thought my ex was


then reality hit and I realized many times that she wasn't


I'm still so happy that ended

11/8/2007 2:15:00 PM

^What were your warning signs?

11/8/2007 2:16:02 PM

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"Hell no. "

So you've been with your current chick less than 8 months and you're already marrying her?

11/8/2007 2:17:51 PM

chembob, i think i know you.... through thomas barley

11/8/2007 2:19:52 PM

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"^What were your warning signs?"

lets see


she was a complete bitch and would say horrible things

tried to fuck most of my friends

wasn't happy when my parents wanted a pre-nup

wasn't happy when I didn't concede with this "list" of things she wanted me to do and be

I pretty much despised her most of the time

I was tired of her for the most part


it just wasn't gonna work

11/8/2007 2:23:31 PM

Damn Greg. Where did you even get the idea that it was gonna work?

11/8/2007 2:24:16 PM

Oh yeah those are pretty big signs lol

11/8/2007 2:24:47 PM

well, there is a reason that I backed out of building the house we had started to build at my farm


at least my property now has power, septic, and water on it!


and look... I'm not married to her... I knew shit wasn't right

she couldn't admit that

she would just bitch and raise hell because all her friends were getting engaged and married and she wasn't

11/8/2007 2:27:59 PM

Yeah, for a lot of folks the idea of being married is what's important. Not the actual factual marriage itself.

11/8/2007 2:30:37 PM

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"So you've been with your current chick less than 8 months and you're already marrying her? "

Yep, couldnt be happier.

11/8/2007 2:38:05 PM

We were friends nearly 2 years, we dated 2ish years, lived together 1 year, engaged and living together 1 year, we've been married 1.5 years, and we're expecting a kid.

We seriously broke up once, saw other people, one of us cheated, one of us kinda cheated, one of us got all strung out on drugs, the other one had a nervous breakdown. . . .all in all we grew up and matured together all the way through college and beyond. I think that it would take some special kind of heinous shit to break sidphoenix and I up.

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 2:48 PM. Reason : sp.]

11/8/2007 2:47:27 PM

DONT JINX IT

11/8/2007 3:09:42 PM

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"Kiwi All American 21678 Posts user info edit post lol zxappeal what big red sirens did you have? Our relationship isn't perfect but we damn well love eachother and put the effort in to make eachother happy. I don't want to get married anytime soon, I just want to know you're at least somewhat committed to me long term. "

kiwi, this is you telling your bf that's on tww that you want him to ask you to marry him

11/8/2007 3:13:53 PM

Oh snap.

11/8/2007 3:18:17 PM

i didn't mean that in a mean way, that's just what i got from that

11/8/2007 3:22:05 PM

Shes also fishing around for others signs for breakups too, she needs to make up her mind.

11/8/2007 3:32:22 PM

haha I don't want him to ask me yet I just want to know he's at least considering it three years in.


He really won't tell me what he thins and I don't know if I should worry about that or not!

11/8/2007 4:13:13 PM

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"I can see myself with puppy forever."

yeah?

11/8/2007 4:17:10 PM

if/ when he's ready, he'll tell you

why are women in such a rush? i mean, he's with you now isn't he? that says a lot

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 4:19 PM. Reason : asdasd]

11/8/2007 4:19:05 PM

haha yeah I was gonna say that, the fact that we live in a house together and are still together should be good, and he kinda clued me in when he said "Yeah one day I wanna get married but not in my mid-20's!"

I'm just a worry wart cause I love him! It's not that I want a wedding and shit right now, it's that I want forever!

11/8/2007 4:22:13 PM

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"if/ when he's ready, he'll tell you why are women in such a rush? i mean, he's with you now isn't he? that says a lot"

In the meantime, just fucking enjoy your life.

11/8/2007 4:22:20 PM

^^^ no it doesnt. It can say anything from "I love her" to "I'm with her cause I havent found someone else" or "cause she's my sugar mama" or "cause moving out is a hassle" or "cause she feeds me and lets me have sex with her"

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 4:22 PM. Reason : ^]

11/8/2007 4:22:41 PM

well if anyone is worried about any of those things, then you should get out of the relationship

11/8/2007 4:24:42 PM

I don't think it's too much to ask for. I just want to know what the man thinks because he damn well knows where I stand.

I don't want the rug ripped out from under me.

11/8/2007 4:26:13 PM

not even close.

i've only met one person i could've honestly seen myself being genuinely happy spending the rest of my life with ever.

i always though i'd marry young, at this point though, i'm really glad it hasen't happened yet.

11/8/2007 4:27:16 PM

^^

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"Yeah one day I wanna get married but not in my mid-20's"

he already told you

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 4:28 PM. Reason : sdfsdf]

11/8/2007 4:27:22 PM

^^^i had my rug ripped out from under me

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 4:27 PM. Reason : damn carrots]

11/8/2007 4:27:39 PM

Ok I'll shut up now!

Stupid women.

11/8/2007 4:30:06 PM

11/8/2007 4:30:50 PM

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"i thought my ex was "

11/8/2007 4:31:11 PM

I knew my ex wasn't , but I was young and naive.

And blinded by poonanny.

11/8/2007 4:59:55 PM

^I can TOTALLY relate.

11/8/2007 5:00:48 PM

She was young and naive too, and blinded by deez nuts. I guess life is balanced.

11/8/2007 5:03:11 PM

Well mine was a pure-T succubus.

So I don't think life is that balanced...or maybe it is. This long damn dry spell might just be the yang to the yin of countless marathon sex sessions.

11/8/2007 5:06:16 PM

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"This long damn dry spell might just be the yang to the yin of countless marathon sex sessions. "

lol, I have sex more now than I did when I was with mine


I hated her, so much

11/8/2007 5:07:47 PM

zx, who's that tall dark haired guy in the wedding pictures in your gallery?

11/8/2007 8:56:28 PM

My Raleigh roommate and one of my best friends, Frac. You might have seen him out and about a lot.

11/8/2007 9:01:58 PM

I've been in a relationship more than 4.5 years, that's longer than her dad has been remarried...

11/8/2007 9:05:19 PM

^^ no, never seen him, just think he's hot

11/8/2007 9:09:42 PM

Yeah, I hear that kinda thing all the time...

11/8/2007 9:13:15 PM

11/8/2007 9:21:23 PM

Hey, every now and then, I get one that comes along and thinks I'm the hot one.

Okay, they're usually the whacked ones.

11/8/2007 9:35:08 PM

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"every now and then, I get one that comes along and thinks I'm the hot one. "

11/8/2007 9:37:13 PM

Are they usually the whacked ones?

11/8/2007 9:41:13 PM

^ Only half the time. Especially when they want to have kids at 24

11/8/2007 9:42:40 PM

That's pretty whacked. Sounds like half the folks I grew up around (small town USA)

Okay, I gotta confess...I had to look in your gallery. I think you can hold your own.

Quote looks awfully familiar. Rand?

11/8/2007 9:48:11 PM

^ Oh yeah, it's Rand. It's from We the Living.
I do pretty well holding my own

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 9:53 PM. Reason : remembered the book]

11/8/2007 9:52:43 PM