6/28/2011 2:20:24 PM

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"Right, and people believing whatever they were raised to believe and never being required to think about why they have those beliefs is a problem. It's laziness and bad for society. I can usually find common ground with people, and that's where I try to start, but you can't complain about how society doesn't change/progress if you can't be bothered to have important, necessary discussions about how those changes should come about with people that are close to you. "

I feel you on this...but lord I hate when I think I'm about to have an intelligent convo on a topic like this and the person is all "DID YOU HEAR ABOUT PEARL HARBOR?!?!" I mean its not hard to study up on current events.

6/28/2011 2:21:39 PM

what about pearl harbor?

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

[Edited on June 28, 2011 at 2:24 PM. Reason : did something happen?]

6/28/2011 2:23:52 PM

6/28/2011 2:25:53 PM

Hahaha. I'm not sure if you're referring to the Japan earthquakes and people making status updates that were equivalent to, "they deserved it because of pearl harbor," but that's definitely a good example of people being dumb as fuck and needing to get called out on their ignorance.

Another dealbreaker: no ambition. It's not about the money, either, but at least do something you're passionate about.

6/28/2011 2:46:06 PM

my biggest dealbreakers:

lack of tact
lack of respect for others

also, you should be hot and want to have sex all the time

6/28/2011 2:49:46 PM

bitching

6/28/2011 2:51:16 PM

tighty-whities

6/28/2011 4:26:42 PM

^ Granny-pannys

6/28/2011 6:54:59 PM

It seems like each year I get old certain things get crossed off the list.

Like,

Used to be Married.
Has Kids.
Doesn't like to go out every weekend.
Doesn't drink.
Won't put out right away.


None of the stuff matters any more. Guess I'm starting to grow up?

Unless their kids are annoying as shit. Fuck annoying kids.

6/28/2011 8:21:58 PM

Kyle Busch fan....will not tolerate

6/28/2011 9:31:14 PM

DOES NOT LIKE TOMATOES



WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!?

6/29/2011 4:14:53 PM

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"Won't put out right away."

CALLING ALL HOES, CALLING ALL HOES.

6/29/2011 4:16:00 PM

6/29/2011 4:28:41 PM

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"DOES NOT LIKE TOMATOES"

damn right...i love tomatoes.

i eat tomatoes like people eat apples

6/29/2011 4:37:24 PM

does that make you not people?

6/29/2011 4:41:11 PM

-asking if she can see my wallet.
-assuming i have condoms in my wallet when i won't show it to her.
-eating 1/4 of her dinner and eating a 1/3 of mine.
-staring at me.
-having Peroni as a favorite beer.

7/12/2011 8:13:58 AM

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"eating 1/4 of her dinner and eating a 1/3 of mine."

what if she eats all of hers and 1/3 of yours?

7/12/2011 8:16:26 AM

People ask to see wallets on dates?

7/12/2011 8:17:43 AM

nothing wrong in making sure

7/12/2011 8:36:16 AM

i guess to make sure the guy isn't gonna be like "oops i forgot my wallet"

and hopefully at our age its not "i need to check your id to see that you're at least 18"

7/12/2011 8:39:29 AM

Has a tramp stamp
Wears pink manties
Looks better in my clothes than I do
Has drinking/substance abuse or dependency issues
Asks me to lose 20 pounds
Asks me to dress up like Princess Leia in bed

7/12/2011 8:39:48 AM

I dont get it?

To check and see if they got pics of their ex or current gf/wife in there.

I would rather see in someones smartphone if I was trying to be nosy.

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"Has a tramp stamp Wears pink manties Looks better in my clothes than I do Has drinking/substance abuse or dependency issues Asks me to lose 20 pounds Asks me to dress up like Princess Leia in bed"

Have you run in to these, or thought of them "just in case"?

7/12/2011 8:39:50 AM

i still get carded everywhere

7/12/2011 8:40:31 AM

^^ All exes of mine

7/12/2011 8:43:32 AM

hey i never checked your phone

[Edited on July 12, 2011 at 8:44 AM. Reason : feel like you havent posted here in a long time.....welcome back lucy!]

7/12/2011 8:44:31 AM

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"To check and see if they got pics of their ex or current gf/wife in there. "

ooh, yeah i can see a guy doing that

hiding a ring too

[Edited on July 12, 2011 at 8:45 AM. Reason : but a tanline on the finger usually gives it away]

7/12/2011 8:44:51 AM

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"what if she eats all of hers and 1/3 of yours?"

That's okay. I can stand to lose a few pounds.

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"People ask to see wallets on dates?"

Happened to me last night.

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"and hopefully at our age its not "i need to check your id to see that you're at least 18""

She thought I wasn't being honest about my age. She's 36 and she thought I was 25-27.

7/12/2011 8:46:23 AM

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"-staring at me."

7/12/2011 8:57:15 AM

-winking at TKE-Teg on match after i introduced them while we were on a date.

7/12/2011 9:00:28 AM

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"-having Peroni as a favorite beer."

Ahahaha ok that made me laugh, and I'll second it.

Regular smoker
Huge debt from stupid decisions
Untruthful (this may actually be the biggest one)
Does drugs
Religious to more than a cursory degree (I respect it but could never share this with you)
Obese (I prefer curves over skinny, but I like self-respect and healthiness too. There's a limit.)

For much of my life I was firmly on the no kids side of the fence, but I'm trying to be open minded and now I'm kind of standing on a rail or something.

[I have no problem coughing up a license. I expect doubt over my age or name (long story) and appreciate things not being taken for face value if you don't know me.]

[Edited on July 12, 2011 at 9:17 AM. Reason : dat wallet]

7/12/2011 9:13:16 AM

I have a couple of new ones now after my latest blind date:

Drinks water from a gallon sized milk jug while driving at unsafe speeds

Smoking from some kind of weird pipe thing

His car was filled with trash and had little fruit flies

7/12/2011 9:13:32 AM

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"His car was filled with trash and had little fruit flies "

dead bodies

7/12/2011 9:18:34 AM

To be fair, sometimes I would ask to see wallets out of curiosity (same with purses). I know that sounds weird, which is why I don't do it anymore. I just liked seeing all the different cards and pictures..

7/12/2011 9:39:55 AM

^^^ haha I know a guy like that but he also has bad BO

[Edited on July 12, 2011 at 12:29 PM. Reason : .]

7/12/2011 12:29:11 PM

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"eating 1/4 of her dinner and eating a 1/3 of mine."

I'm going to throw this out there and say that eating significant other's food is a girl thing. Just have to get used to it, which sucks because I'm a greedy little food hoarder.

7/12/2011 12:36:11 PM

being a smoker (I mean addict, not the occasional while out drinking or something)

7/12/2011 12:44:25 PM

^^
This was a first date. I thought it was odd and a bit unsanitary.

7/12/2011 1:03:39 PM

That's why on first dates, I always switch the plates, so that I eat what she ordered and she eats what I ordered.

7/12/2011 1:06:25 PM

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"I have a couple of new ones now after my latest blind date: Drinks water from a gallon sized milk jug while driving at unsafe speeds Smoking from some kind of weird pipe thing His car was filled with trash and had little fruit flies "

I am lol'ing at some of these.

Who the hell does not at least de-trash the inside of their car before a first date? I mean I am not gonna get my car detailed and washed......but at least throw out any food remnants and wrappers.

I drink water out of large jugs but only at stop lights.

7/12/2011 1:10:59 PM