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"However, it was a great night overall"

Gee, it sure sounds that way to me...

7/31/2018 12:19:49 AM

cool so now we can lock this shit right

7/31/2018 6:42:09 AM

What about the next wedding?

7/31/2018 7:12:11 AM

If I was a betting man...I'd bet on sawahash's side of the story. But just want to say that I bet the bartender's side is much different.

7/31/2018 8:28:56 AM

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"My husband heard it (and if anyone knows him, they know he is a very introverted person, very non-confrontational) and he picked up all the cocktail napkins and threw them at the bartender."

What. What is this move? What was he trying to accomplish? Why was this the move for him? Did the bartender laugh at him? Who picked the napkins up off the floor in the end? Shit isn't adding up, B.

7/31/2018 9:25:39 AM

Make that motherfucker pay his $5.00 so he can register and come here to stand before us and explain this shit. He's got to take the stand on this one. A grown man throwing some napkins at a bartender?

7/31/2018 9:28:10 AM

This is fucking with me. Why would you throw napkins? It's not intimidating. It's not even really that annoying. It's just silly! It's a silly fucking thing to do.

Is that it? Was he trying to defuse the situation? He can't have thought that would work. And yet, it's clearly not enough to escalate anything. So he couldn't have been trying to pick a fight. Right?

Or was he?

Fuck. What the fuck. Get your little napkin-throwing mans on here. He's got to address the crowd on this one.

7/31/2018 9:30:42 AM

The napkins had serated edges, increasing the probability of causing a paper cut by .02%

7/31/2018 9:55:02 AM

Lol. Whole range of emotions reading that sentence.

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"My husband heard it (and if anyone knows him, they know he is a very introverted person, very non-confrontational) and he"

was expecting he hit him, or grabbed him, or something. then...

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"picked up all the"

oh ok, he's gonna throw some bottles or a whole table or turn the bar over on him or something. then...

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" cocktail napkins and threw them at the bartender."

7/31/2018 10:30:41 AM

if this reception was at the aquarium i know they don’t fuck around with drunk idiots messing with the exhibits

probably another side to this story

7/31/2018 6:48:54 PM

i was wondering where a person could have a large wedding reception between AB and Pine Knoll Shores. if it was the aquarium, the bartender probably was getting different instructions from their boss.

Have you planned the honeymoon yet?

[Edited on July 31, 2018 at 7:02 PM. Reason : is the golf course clubhouse in Pine Knoll Shores or AB?]

7/31/2018 6:58:24 PM

So, when he cursed at you, did he cut himself off???

7/31/2018 7:20:41 PM

sawash need to get her sawft boi online so he can speak to this nonsense

7/31/2018 7:25:44 PM

He threw the fucking paper products.

His statement is complete.

7/31/2018 11:12:39 PM

It was not at the aquarium, there is another place there that can host a wedding. I don't want to throw them under the bus quite yet. However, they sent my mom an e-mail today saying they can't find her number to call and talk to her (even though it is on the contract that we signed). My dad has talked about talking to a lawyer on Friday to talk about a breach of contract if things are not resolved by then. We also had a somewhat big named family in attendance at our wedding who were treated poorly by the bartender. So that may help our cause, since Carteret County is big on keeping certain people happy.

As far as throwing the cocktail napkins, y'all need to understand, my husband is quite literally the exact opposite of me. In most similar situations he would have said "just don't worry about it" and let it slide (I often tell him that he needs to be better at sticking up for himself), so for him to do something like throw cocktail napkins it shows there was a problem. The napkins were also right there in front of him when it happened so they were the most convenient and less likely to get him arrested.

We do have our honeymoon planned. We are driving down to Miami on Friday and staying the night. Then we are getting on a cruise to the Carribean. We are hitting up Grand Turk, San Juan, St. Thomas, and Amber Cove. Everything is already paid for and we got the drink package. If anyone has any tips to make a cruise experience even better, I will take them, I have never been on a cruise before!

During the wedding, we put our dog in boarding. Well, with all the storms coming through and the fact that she was sleeping alone in a strange place, it caused her to pull out one of her nails! Poor baby! Luckily, they took her to a vet and got her on some antibiotics to make sure it doesn't cause an infection. They also prescribed her some anxiety medicine. We are taking her to the same place for the honeymoon, and this anxiety medicine will help her sleep at night. This place is great. They have someone stay at the place overnight so the dogs are not left alone in case there is an emergency. They also have doggy daycare, so during the day she will have plenty of pups to play with and entertain her. So FYI, if anyone is in the area and looking for dog boarding or daycare, check out Beach Paws. They are great. They also recommended we get her CBD treats to help calm her down. We will definitely be trying them out when people come over to our house. She is so excitable and happy when someone comes over she just can't calm down.

And as far as getting my husband an account on here....HELL NO! He sort of knows about this place, just because I will occasionally mention something that was said on "an NC State message board," but I will never introduce him to it. Haha!



Also, once we get the pictures back from the wedding, I will post one on here for y'all to see how great I looked. I mean, I generally tend to not want to show off myself, but I looked damn good!



[Edited on August 1, 2018 at 1:00 AM. Reason : ]

8/1/2018 12:54:00 AM

First off, congrats! I'm happy you didn't allow that douche to run the night for you. I'm wayyyyy jelly of your cruise coming up, and wanna see the wedding pics

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"and this anxiety medicine will help her sleep at night"

What med is it? One of mine has a long road trip coming up and trazadone was recommended for sedation.

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"They also recommended we get her CBD treats to help calm her down"

Those things aren't cheap, but we have old AF dogs and have seen good results with them. One of them goes nuts whenever anyone even looks at our house, and has joint pain, but on the CBD both are eased. Other one has a hard time getting up and moving around generally, and CBD has helped both issues. I was skeptical at first, and they aren't silver bullets, but I'm happy to part with the $texas because it helps them.

8/1/2018 1:21:28 AM

bridezilla: we live at the beach, where should we honeymoon?
napkin boi: idk... a different beach?
bridezilla: shit, you're a genius

[Edited on August 1, 2018 at 8:32 AM. Reason : and then lets take a boat to several other beaches]

8/1/2018 8:31:34 AM

hahaha


congrats on the wedding.

8/1/2018 9:08:16 AM

^^haha, what can I say....we really like boats and beaches!

8/1/2018 10:29:26 AM

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"The napkins had serated edges, increasing the probability of causing a paper cut by .02%"

Actually, I have researched this with a double-blind randomized control trial. That figure is correct, but your statement isn't:

Probability of causing a paper cut by throwing non-serrated paper napkins: 0.01%
Probability of causing a paper cut by throwing serrated (edges) paper napkins: 0.02%

So the probability actually increases to 0.02% (doubles), in other words, the probability increases by 100%.

Pretty savage move!

8/1/2018 8:24:47 PM

grats!

[Edited on August 3, 2018 at 4:48 PM. Reason : ]

8/3/2018 4:48:34 PM

The venue decided to forgive the alcohol and taxes because of the way the bartender acted. They also said that the bartender would be "disciplined" for his actions. I'm guessing his discipline was being relieved of his duties since he cost them well over $1000...

8/3/2018 6:55:29 PM

Wow they comped the alcohol? Nice work!

8/3/2018 6:59:10 PM

that influential relative she mentioned must have scared them pretty good

8/4/2018 3:52:10 PM

Ok, the photographer shared the pictures with us. We're waiting for them to get the USB to us, but until then I can look at all the pictures from their website. Here is one that I thought I would share with y'all. It's a screenshot, so it's not particularly great quality...

8/12/2018 3:49:02 PM